Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! 2 Corinthians 5:17
I can’t believe 2008 has come and now is gone. I must admit 2008 was a challenging year in many ways. Several things in my life didn’t work out the way I was hoping they would. However, a new year always brings a fresh hope to my soul.
In Isaiah 43:18-19 the Lord says, “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. (19) See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.”
In this passage of Scripture, the Lord is reminding us to not dwell on the former things, but focus on the new things in the upcoming year. When we only focus on the unpleasant moments of the past, it causes us to not perceive the new blessing that is going to spring up in the future. God has the supernatural ability to make refreshing springs in the desert and wasteland places of our lives. He can turn that which has been barren into a fruitful place in the future.
One of the keys to entering the New Year on a positive note is practicing the discipline of letting go of the bad and holding on to the good. 1 Thessalonians 5:21 says, “Test everything. Hold on to the good.”
Unfortunately, it is human nature to forget the good events and only hold on to the wretched occurrences of life. When we do this, bitterness develops in our soul that poisons us, and causes us to be disillusioned with life.
I am committed to entering into 2009 “holding on to the good” and releasing the disappointments of 2008. I will use them as learning lessons, make the necessary changes in my life, and move forward in faith.
Remember, as you enter into 2009, make sure you leave the old behind and grab a hold of the new things God wants to do in your life.
What old things of 2008 are you releasing, and what new things are you reaching for in 2009? I would love to read about it.
Happy New Year!
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
The Purpose of Christmas
For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. 7 Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David's throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever. The zeal of the LORD Almighty will accomplish this. Isaiah 9:6-7
I often get asked, “What is the purpose of Christmas?” It is impossible to try to answer this question with a single statement. Of course, the purpose of Christmas is to celebrate the birth of Jesus. But, why is Jesus’ birthday so significant and what does He offer us when we receive His gift?
Pastor Rick Warren was recently interviewed on the television show “Hannity and Colmes”. Pastor Rick’s new book, “The Purpose of Christmas” was the topic of the conversation. As always, Pastor Rick was able to provide an answer that is easy to understand and remember.
Listed below is what we get when we receive the gift of Jesus in our lives.
(1) Jesus gives us a past forgiven.
I recently joined the Facebook universe. It has been a great joy to reconnect with so many old friends. Many of them are old high school classmates. Some of them I haven’t talked to in over twenty years. Connecting with my old friends brings back so many memories of the past. Most of those memories are great ones. However, some of those memories are experiences I wish I never participated in.
One thing for sure is that connecting with old friends reminds me that I am not the same person I used to be. I am so thankful that I am now a Christ-follower and my past sins have been forgiven. When I think about my wonderful marriage and my beautiful children, and what a blessing it is to be a husband and father, I know that none of it would be possible without a past forgiven.
(2) Jesus gives us a purpose for living.
Before I became a Christ-follower I used to live for my own selfish ambitions. Everything I did was all about me. In basketball, it was all about how many games I could win and how many records could I break. In dating, it was all about how many women could I go out with. In education, it was all about getting a degree so I could make money and buy myself stuff. Everything was about me. There is nothing wrong with basketball, women, or having a job, but these pursuits without God are meaningless.
Now I have a real purpose for living. It is to know God and make Him known to people. It is not about my will being done, but God’s for my life. One of the greatest feelings in life is the security that comes from knowing why you were created and what you are supposed to do with your life. Without this, life is a bunch of aimless wanderings and pursuits, or at best, a roll of the dice. Without God, Forrest Gump said it best, “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are gonna get.”
(3) Jesus gives us a place in heaven.
After a run last week, I cooled down by going on a prayer walk while listening to worship music on my I-phone. Each step reminded me that I am on a pilgrimage here on planet earth. This is not our permanent home. For those who have received Jesus as their Lord and Savior, their final residence is in heaven. I can’t wait until that glorious day.
Jesus is hosting the grandest and greatest celebration of all time. It is called the Marriage Supper of the Lamb. We are going to feast, dance, and sing with the King of kings. No getting tired, no hangovers and no love handles. Praise God!
And, He has asked us to invite as many people as possible to attend. In our Father’s house there are many rooms and Jesus has gone to prepare a place for us. We are on a journey to the ultimate place and party the universe has ever experienced. I can’t wait!!!
As you celebrate Christmas this year, remember Jesus has given us a past forgiven, a purpose for living, and a place in heaven. Wow!!!
Merry Christmas!
I often get asked, “What is the purpose of Christmas?” It is impossible to try to answer this question with a single statement. Of course, the purpose of Christmas is to celebrate the birth of Jesus. But, why is Jesus’ birthday so significant and what does He offer us when we receive His gift?
Pastor Rick Warren was recently interviewed on the television show “Hannity and Colmes”. Pastor Rick’s new book, “The Purpose of Christmas” was the topic of the conversation. As always, Pastor Rick was able to provide an answer that is easy to understand and remember.
Listed below is what we get when we receive the gift of Jesus in our lives.
(1) Jesus gives us a past forgiven.
I recently joined the Facebook universe. It has been a great joy to reconnect with so many old friends. Many of them are old high school classmates. Some of them I haven’t talked to in over twenty years. Connecting with my old friends brings back so many memories of the past. Most of those memories are great ones. However, some of those memories are experiences I wish I never participated in.
One thing for sure is that connecting with old friends reminds me that I am not the same person I used to be. I am so thankful that I am now a Christ-follower and my past sins have been forgiven. When I think about my wonderful marriage and my beautiful children, and what a blessing it is to be a husband and father, I know that none of it would be possible without a past forgiven.
(2) Jesus gives us a purpose for living.
Before I became a Christ-follower I used to live for my own selfish ambitions. Everything I did was all about me. In basketball, it was all about how many games I could win and how many records could I break. In dating, it was all about how many women could I go out with. In education, it was all about getting a degree so I could make money and buy myself stuff. Everything was about me. There is nothing wrong with basketball, women, or having a job, but these pursuits without God are meaningless.
Now I have a real purpose for living. It is to know God and make Him known to people. It is not about my will being done, but God’s for my life. One of the greatest feelings in life is the security that comes from knowing why you were created and what you are supposed to do with your life. Without this, life is a bunch of aimless wanderings and pursuits, or at best, a roll of the dice. Without God, Forrest Gump said it best, “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are gonna get.”
(3) Jesus gives us a place in heaven.
After a run last week, I cooled down by going on a prayer walk while listening to worship music on my I-phone. Each step reminded me that I am on a pilgrimage here on planet earth. This is not our permanent home. For those who have received Jesus as their Lord and Savior, their final residence is in heaven. I can’t wait until that glorious day.
Jesus is hosting the grandest and greatest celebration of all time. It is called the Marriage Supper of the Lamb. We are going to feast, dance, and sing with the King of kings. No getting tired, no hangovers and no love handles. Praise God!
And, He has asked us to invite as many people as possible to attend. In our Father’s house there are many rooms and Jesus has gone to prepare a place for us. We are on a journey to the ultimate place and party the universe has ever experienced. I can’t wait!!!
As you celebrate Christmas this year, remember Jesus has given us a past forgiven, a purpose for living, and a place in heaven. Wow!!!
Merry Christmas!
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Judging Without Being Judgmental (Part 2)
Stop judging by mere appearances, and make a right judgment." John 7:24
Is it possible to judge without being judgmental?
My answer to this question is a resounding yes. Listed below are my top four ways on how to judge without being judgmental.
(1) Refer people to the model of Jesus Christ.
I have found that many people don’t actually know what Jesus and the Bible have to say about moral living. Give them a Bible and teach them the Holy Scriptures. It is hard to argue with the one who lived a sinless life—Jesus.
11For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. 12It teaches us to say "No" to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, 13while we wait for the blessed hope—the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, 14who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good. 15These, then, are the things you should teach. Titus 2:11-15
(2) Recognize your own need for grace and truth.
This is the key to staying humble. I have never forgotten that Christ died for sinners of whom I am the worst. In high school, I would have been voted least likely to become a pastor. When I talk with people who are not living according to God’s truth, I always remember that I used to be one of them. Love, not pride or hatred, must truly compel us when talking with others. Trust me, they will know the difference. The verse of scripture I identify with the most in the Bible is 1 Timothy 1:16.
It says, "16But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience as an example for those who would believe on him and receive eternal life."
(3) Remove any sin from your life first before you talk to others about their sin.
Is your faith worth emulating? Christ-followers should judge themselves first by living a life of self-examination. Insincerity is so unattractive. Nobody wants to listen to someone who is a hypocrite. Too often Christ-followers are more concerned with the sins of others and don’t take care of their own moral failures. For example, people speak out against homosexuality while getting a divorce. Or, others condemn abortion while engaging in sex before marriage. This is what Jesus was talking about in his teaching on the plank and the speck.
1"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. Matthew 7:1-5
(4) Reveal to others what God is doing in your life.
People love to hear personal stories. Make sure you tell them how Jesus has changed your life for the better. When our lives reflect a Christ-like example it is compelling and attractive, not judgmental. Remember, a person with an experience is never at the mercy of a person with an argument.
Apostle Paul exhorted Timothy to testify about the Lord to other people. In 2 Timothy 1:8-9 he writes, “8So do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord, or ashamed of me his prisoner. But join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God, 9who has saved us and called us to a holy life—not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time.”
Does this help you speak the truth in love?
Is it possible to judge without being judgmental?
My answer to this question is a resounding yes. Listed below are my top four ways on how to judge without being judgmental.
(1) Refer people to the model of Jesus Christ.
I have found that many people don’t actually know what Jesus and the Bible have to say about moral living. Give them a Bible and teach them the Holy Scriptures. It is hard to argue with the one who lived a sinless life—Jesus.
11For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. 12It teaches us to say "No" to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, 13while we wait for the blessed hope—the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, 14who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good. 15These, then, are the things you should teach. Titus 2:11-15
(2) Recognize your own need for grace and truth.
This is the key to staying humble. I have never forgotten that Christ died for sinners of whom I am the worst. In high school, I would have been voted least likely to become a pastor. When I talk with people who are not living according to God’s truth, I always remember that I used to be one of them. Love, not pride or hatred, must truly compel us when talking with others. Trust me, they will know the difference. The verse of scripture I identify with the most in the Bible is 1 Timothy 1:16.
It says, "16But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience as an example for those who would believe on him and receive eternal life."
(3) Remove any sin from your life first before you talk to others about their sin.
Is your faith worth emulating? Christ-followers should judge themselves first by living a life of self-examination. Insincerity is so unattractive. Nobody wants to listen to someone who is a hypocrite. Too often Christ-followers are more concerned with the sins of others and don’t take care of their own moral failures. For example, people speak out against homosexuality while getting a divorce. Or, others condemn abortion while engaging in sex before marriage. This is what Jesus was talking about in his teaching on the plank and the speck.
1"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. Matthew 7:1-5
(4) Reveal to others what God is doing in your life.
People love to hear personal stories. Make sure you tell them how Jesus has changed your life for the better. When our lives reflect a Christ-like example it is compelling and attractive, not judgmental. Remember, a person with an experience is never at the mercy of a person with an argument.
Apostle Paul exhorted Timothy to testify about the Lord to other people. In 2 Timothy 1:8-9 he writes, “8So do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord, or ashamed of me his prisoner. But join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God, 9who has saved us and called us to a holy life—not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time.”
Does this help you speak the truth in love?
Monday, December 01, 2008
Judging Without Being Judgmental
Malachi 2:7 says, "For the lips of a priest (pastor) ought to preserve knowledge, and from his mouth men should seek instruction—because he is the messenger of the LORD Almighty.”
One of my responsibilities as a minister of Jesus Christ is to preserve knowledge by speaking truth according to God’s word—the Bible. That is why I blog about hot button issues like gay marriage rights and abortion. When pastors abdicate this duty churches loose their power to influence culture. When religion is weak in a nation, its morals become confusing and its institutions become corrupt.
One philosophy that is destroying America today is the relativity of moral values.
Chuck Colson says, “This myth hides the dividing line between good and evil, noble and base. It has thus created a crisis in the realm of truth. When a society abandons it transcendent values, each individual’s moral vision becomes purely personal and finally equal. Society becomes merely the sum total of individual preferences, and since no preference is morally preferable, anything that can be dared will be permitted. This leaves the moral consensus for our laws and manners in tatters. Tolerance substitutes for truth, indifference for religious conviction. And in the end, confusion undercuts all our creeds.”
Moral relativism makes it extremely difficult to communicate truth without people thinking you are a mean and narrow-minded person. Since I was a young kid, my parents taught me to tell the truth, and to only trust those who were truthful. Moral relativism is deceptive because it causes us to despise the people we should value the most—the ones who will tell us the truth.
Ephesians 4:15 says “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”
Unfortunately, many Christ-followers have not done a good job speaking the truth in love. It takes wisdom, social grace and interpersonal skill to do this well. Too often Christ-followers have deep convictions but lack compassion for people who are living in sin. Also, too many Christ-followers live a hypocritical life, and therefore, lose their moral authority to speak truth to others.
Is it possible to judge without being judgmental? If so, how?
Before I write my thoughts, I would love to read how you would answer this question. I look forward to reading your response.
One of my responsibilities as a minister of Jesus Christ is to preserve knowledge by speaking truth according to God’s word—the Bible. That is why I blog about hot button issues like gay marriage rights and abortion. When pastors abdicate this duty churches loose their power to influence culture. When religion is weak in a nation, its morals become confusing and its institutions become corrupt.
One philosophy that is destroying America today is the relativity of moral values.
Chuck Colson says, “This myth hides the dividing line between good and evil, noble and base. It has thus created a crisis in the realm of truth. When a society abandons it transcendent values, each individual’s moral vision becomes purely personal and finally equal. Society becomes merely the sum total of individual preferences, and since no preference is morally preferable, anything that can be dared will be permitted. This leaves the moral consensus for our laws and manners in tatters. Tolerance substitutes for truth, indifference for religious conviction. And in the end, confusion undercuts all our creeds.”
Moral relativism makes it extremely difficult to communicate truth without people thinking you are a mean and narrow-minded person. Since I was a young kid, my parents taught me to tell the truth, and to only trust those who were truthful. Moral relativism is deceptive because it causes us to despise the people we should value the most—the ones who will tell us the truth.
Ephesians 4:15 says “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”
Unfortunately, many Christ-followers have not done a good job speaking the truth in love. It takes wisdom, social grace and interpersonal skill to do this well. Too often Christ-followers have deep convictions but lack compassion for people who are living in sin. Also, too many Christ-followers live a hypocritical life, and therefore, lose their moral authority to speak truth to others.
Is it possible to judge without being judgmental? If so, how?
Before I write my thoughts, I would love to read how you would answer this question. I look forward to reading your response.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Is Gay Marriage the Civil Rights Issue of the 21st Century? (Part 2)
Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, I felt I had to write and urge you to contend for the faith that was once for all entrusted to the saints. (4) For certain men whose condemnation was written about long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are godless men, who change the grace of our God into a license for immorality and deny Jesus Christ our only Sovereign and Lord. Jude 3,4
Let me clearly state that I do not hate homosexuals and lesbians. In fact, I have friends and individuals in my extended family who practice this lifestyle. My motive for writing this blog is a love for people and a desire for them to know the truth.
I believe one of the greatest ways a person can express love is by telling the truth. Life has taught me to trust those who tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear. Sometimes truth is offensive, sometimes truth is uncomfortable, sometimes truth hurts and sometimes truth confronts our own desire and will. Although truth can be all these things, it is always better than a lie. If I truly love someone then I must demonstrate that love by speaking the truth to him or her. If I don’t speak the truth then I am a deceitful, disingenuous and disrespectful person. It takes courage to value truth more than popularity.
Here is the truth concerning gay marriage:
(1) Same sex marriage is defined as wicked and detestable behavior in the Bible. It will always be wrong because God says it is sinful. Although laws in a nation might change, God’s mind never will in regards to this issue. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says, “Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.”
(2) Same sex marriage undercuts the idea that procreation is intrinsically connected to marriage.
(3) Same sex marriage undermines the idea that children need both a father and a mother, further weakening the societal norm that men should take responsibility for he children they beget.
(4) Same sex marriage corrodes marital norms of sexual fidelity, since gay marriage advocates and gay couples tend to downplay the importance of sexual fidelity in their definition of marriage. For instance, Judith Stacey, professor of sociology at New York University and a leading advocate of gay marriage, hopes that same-sex marriage will promote a “pluralistic expansion of the meaning, practice, and politics of family life in the United States” where “perhaps some might dare to question the dyadic limitations of Western marriage and seek some of the benefits of extended family life through small group marriages…”
(5) Same sex marriage has been legalized in societies or regions with low rates of marriage and/or fertility. For instance, Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Spain, and Massachusetts all have fertility rates well below the replacement level of 2.1 children per woman.
(6) Finally, same sex marriage further weakens marriage itself at the very moment when it needs to be strengthened in our nation.
Good job America by voting for what is right and true and best for our society as far as marriage is concerned. Our success as a nation depends on the strength and health of our marriages. A marriage between a man and a woman is the only union where sex is not a sin. These marriages are better for society, better for children and essential for procreation.
Don’t be deceived by the protests, media pundits, musical entertainers, cultural icons, and those who want to practice and legalize immoral sexual behavior. Gay marriage is not a civil rights issue—it is a moral issue.
What do you think about this issue?
Let me clearly state that I do not hate homosexuals and lesbians. In fact, I have friends and individuals in my extended family who practice this lifestyle. My motive for writing this blog is a love for people and a desire for them to know the truth.
I believe one of the greatest ways a person can express love is by telling the truth. Life has taught me to trust those who tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear. Sometimes truth is offensive, sometimes truth is uncomfortable, sometimes truth hurts and sometimes truth confronts our own desire and will. Although truth can be all these things, it is always better than a lie. If I truly love someone then I must demonstrate that love by speaking the truth to him or her. If I don’t speak the truth then I am a deceitful, disingenuous and disrespectful person. It takes courage to value truth more than popularity.
Here is the truth concerning gay marriage:
(1) Same sex marriage is defined as wicked and detestable behavior in the Bible. It will always be wrong because God says it is sinful. Although laws in a nation might change, God’s mind never will in regards to this issue. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says, “Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.”
(2) Same sex marriage undercuts the idea that procreation is intrinsically connected to marriage.
(3) Same sex marriage undermines the idea that children need both a father and a mother, further weakening the societal norm that men should take responsibility for he children they beget.
(4) Same sex marriage corrodes marital norms of sexual fidelity, since gay marriage advocates and gay couples tend to downplay the importance of sexual fidelity in their definition of marriage. For instance, Judith Stacey, professor of sociology at New York University and a leading advocate of gay marriage, hopes that same-sex marriage will promote a “pluralistic expansion of the meaning, practice, and politics of family life in the United States” where “perhaps some might dare to question the dyadic limitations of Western marriage and seek some of the benefits of extended family life through small group marriages…”
(5) Same sex marriage has been legalized in societies or regions with low rates of marriage and/or fertility. For instance, Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Spain, and Massachusetts all have fertility rates well below the replacement level of 2.1 children per woman.
(6) Finally, same sex marriage further weakens marriage itself at the very moment when it needs to be strengthened in our nation.
Good job America by voting for what is right and true and best for our society as far as marriage is concerned. Our success as a nation depends on the strength and health of our marriages. A marriage between a man and a woman is the only union where sex is not a sin. These marriages are better for society, better for children and essential for procreation.
Don’t be deceived by the protests, media pundits, musical entertainers, cultural icons, and those who want to practice and legalize immoral sexual behavior. Gay marriage is not a civil rights issue—it is a moral issue.
What do you think about this issue?
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Is Gay Marriage the Civil Rights Issue of the 21st Century? (Part 1)
Florida may have turned Democrat on Election Day, but voters in nearly every county voiced resounding agreement on one conservative measure: Marriage should be defined in the state's constitution as between a man and a woman.
Even in California, a state that is known for liberal ideology, a majority of its population voted yes on Proposition 8. This proposition will amend the state Constitution to restrict the definition of marriage to a union between a man and a woman. It will overturn a recent California Supreme Court decision that had recognized same-sex marriage in California as a fundamental right.
Many citizens in California are protesting this decision. While discussing this issue on “The O’Reilly Factor” Margaret Hoover, a Fox News Contributor and “cultural warrior”, commented to Bill O’Reilly that gay marriage is the civil rights issue of the 21st century.
Are same sex marriage rights the same as African-American rights?
I am not a black man, but I find this statement incredibly offensive. It is selfish and deceptive to try to equate ethnicity with sexual conduct. The civil rights movement fought to acknowledge the intrinsic value and equality of every person regardless of the color of their skin. Same sex advocates protest to legalize immoral sexual behavior. Big difference!
A majority of African-Americans voted to define marriage as an institution that consists of a man and a woman. Why aren’t African-Americans speaking up and challenging the validity of this thought?
Gay marriage is not a civil rights issue. It is not about ethnicity—it’s about ethics.
Stay tuned for part two, and please tell me what you think about this issue while you are waiting.
Even in California, a state that is known for liberal ideology, a majority of its population voted yes on Proposition 8. This proposition will amend the state Constitution to restrict the definition of marriage to a union between a man and a woman. It will overturn a recent California Supreme Court decision that had recognized same-sex marriage in California as a fundamental right.
Many citizens in California are protesting this decision. While discussing this issue on “The O’Reilly Factor” Margaret Hoover, a Fox News Contributor and “cultural warrior”, commented to Bill O’Reilly that gay marriage is the civil rights issue of the 21st century.
Are same sex marriage rights the same as African-American rights?
I am not a black man, but I find this statement incredibly offensive. It is selfish and deceptive to try to equate ethnicity with sexual conduct. The civil rights movement fought to acknowledge the intrinsic value and equality of every person regardless of the color of their skin. Same sex advocates protest to legalize immoral sexual behavior. Big difference!
A majority of African-Americans voted to define marriage as an institution that consists of a man and a woman. Why aren’t African-Americans speaking up and challenging the validity of this thought?
Gay marriage is not a civil rights issue. It is not about ethnicity—it’s about ethics.
Stay tuned for part two, and please tell me what you think about this issue while you are waiting.
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Wind of Change
The world is closing in
Did you ever think
That we could be so close, like brothers
The future's in the air
I can feel it everywhere
Blowing with the wind of change
Take me to the magic of the moment
On a glory night
Where the children of tomorrow dream away
in the wind of change
Walking down the street
Distant memories
Are buried in the past forever (Scorpions, Wind of Change)
I would like to congratulate Barack Obama on winning the presidential election and making history by becoming the first African-American president in the United States of America. Although I did not personally vote for Obama, and disagree with him on many of the political issues, his election can be a good wind of change for our nation.
Before I continue, let me clearly state that I am concerned with how Barack Obama will govern the United States of America. I wholeheartedly believe that the protection and prosperity of a nation are directly related to its desire to adhere to Godly principles. As a senator, Barack Obama certainly voted contrary to God’s principles revealed to us in the Bible. If Obama leads us farther away from these principles as a nation, I believe America has not even come close to seeing the worst of its problems.
Now, let me explain why I think his election can be a good wind of change for our nation. Listed below are my top five reasons:
(1) As the son of bi-racial parents, Barack Obama has a unique gift to bring people of different ethnicities together. This is a crucial leadership quality that 21st century presidents in America must possess to lead our “melting pot” nation.
(2) Barack Obama inspired and mobilized the younger generation to get involved in the political process. Active participation from the younger generation in our nation is vital to its future success. Future politicians better learn how he did this so successfully. Did you see the younger generation dancing in the streets? What a scene!
(3) His nomination as the first African-American president is the straw that broke the back of bigotry in our nation. I know that bigotry has not completely been removed from America. As long as we have human beings on the planet, we will always have to deal with prejudice people. However, an African-American will occupy the highest office in our nation, and millions of white people help put him in this position. The wind of change is here.
(4) I believe Barack Obama’s victory brought tremendous healing to the African-American community for the atrocities done to many of their ancestors during slavery. It also brought joy and redemption to all who have fought in the civil rights battle in this nation.
(5) Barack Obama’s accomplishment should forever dispel the victim mentality that a person cannot advance in our nation because of the color of their skin. I know this was once the case in America, but no more because the wind of change is here.
Our most influential politician, talk show host, movie actor and athlete are African-Americans. Also, there are many successful actors, businessmen and women, educators and ministers who are African-Americans in our nation.
All people, no matter the color of their skin, are responsible to work hard and make the most of their God-given talents and the opportunities these talents afford them. God ultimately determines the destiny of every person. Love Him and serve Him and all things will be possible.
To conclude, I hope Barack Obama is a great president who honors God and serves the American citizens well. I am so thankful that in my lifetime I got to see an African-American elected to the office of the President of the United States. Today, our nation is living “The Dream”.
Please join me in praying daily for Barack Obama’s success as the 44th president of the United States. 2 Timothy 2:1 says, “I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone—for kings (presidents) and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.” I am committing to do this with all of my heart.
Barack Obama’s success is our success as the United States of America! I pray the wind blows in good change to America.
What do you think about this historic moment?
Did you ever think
That we could be so close, like brothers
The future's in the air
I can feel it everywhere
Blowing with the wind of change
Take me to the magic of the moment
On a glory night
Where the children of tomorrow dream away
in the wind of change
Walking down the street
Distant memories
Are buried in the past forever (Scorpions, Wind of Change)
I would like to congratulate Barack Obama on winning the presidential election and making history by becoming the first African-American president in the United States of America. Although I did not personally vote for Obama, and disagree with him on many of the political issues, his election can be a good wind of change for our nation.
Before I continue, let me clearly state that I am concerned with how Barack Obama will govern the United States of America. I wholeheartedly believe that the protection and prosperity of a nation are directly related to its desire to adhere to Godly principles. As a senator, Barack Obama certainly voted contrary to God’s principles revealed to us in the Bible. If Obama leads us farther away from these principles as a nation, I believe America has not even come close to seeing the worst of its problems.
Now, let me explain why I think his election can be a good wind of change for our nation. Listed below are my top five reasons:
(1) As the son of bi-racial parents, Barack Obama has a unique gift to bring people of different ethnicities together. This is a crucial leadership quality that 21st century presidents in America must possess to lead our “melting pot” nation.
(2) Barack Obama inspired and mobilized the younger generation to get involved in the political process. Active participation from the younger generation in our nation is vital to its future success. Future politicians better learn how he did this so successfully. Did you see the younger generation dancing in the streets? What a scene!
(3) His nomination as the first African-American president is the straw that broke the back of bigotry in our nation. I know that bigotry has not completely been removed from America. As long as we have human beings on the planet, we will always have to deal with prejudice people. However, an African-American will occupy the highest office in our nation, and millions of white people help put him in this position. The wind of change is here.
(4) I believe Barack Obama’s victory brought tremendous healing to the African-American community for the atrocities done to many of their ancestors during slavery. It also brought joy and redemption to all who have fought in the civil rights battle in this nation.
(5) Barack Obama’s accomplishment should forever dispel the victim mentality that a person cannot advance in our nation because of the color of their skin. I know this was once the case in America, but no more because the wind of change is here.
Our most influential politician, talk show host, movie actor and athlete are African-Americans. Also, there are many successful actors, businessmen and women, educators and ministers who are African-Americans in our nation.
All people, no matter the color of their skin, are responsible to work hard and make the most of their God-given talents and the opportunities these talents afford them. God ultimately determines the destiny of every person. Love Him and serve Him and all things will be possible.
To conclude, I hope Barack Obama is a great president who honors God and serves the American citizens well. I am so thankful that in my lifetime I got to see an African-American elected to the office of the President of the United States. Today, our nation is living “The Dream”.
Please join me in praying daily for Barack Obama’s success as the 44th president of the United States. 2 Timothy 2:1 says, “I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone—for kings (presidents) and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.” I am committing to do this with all of my heart.
Barack Obama’s success is our success as the United States of America! I pray the wind blows in good change to America.
What do you think about this historic moment?
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Would Jesus Spread the Wealth Around?
Should government spread the wealth around? In other words, should the government take from those who have more to give to those who have less?
Does Jesus have anything to say about this by giving us an example to look at in the Bible? Yes! The Parable of the Talents in Matthew 25:14-30 gives us many points to think about concerning this issue. I implore you to read this parable right now.
Jesus would spread the wealth around, but not in the way you might think.
Jesus taught about His way of “redistributing wealth”. Matthew 25:14-18 says, “14"Again, it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted his property to them. 15To one he gave five talents of money, to another two talents, and to another one talent, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. 16The man who had received the five talents went at once and put his money to work and gained five more. 17So also, the one with the two talents gained two more. 18But the man who had received the one talent went off, dug a hole in the ground and hid his master's money.
First, I want to point out the fact that the master does not entrust each servant with an equal amount of his property. One servant received five talents of money, one servant received two talents of money, and the other servant received one talent of money. Although the servants were not given equal amounts of money, they were given the same opportunity to increase the owner’s property under their stewardship. Jesus does not expect everyone to have equal amounts, just equal opportunity.
How did the servants with five and two talents do with the master’s money?
The man who received the five talents gained five more. The man who received two talents gained two more. To each of them, the master replied, “Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things.” Jesus only gives more things to His servants who have been good stewards of a few things.
How did the servant with one talent do with the master’s money?
The man who received one talent came to his master and said, “I knew that you are a hard man, harvesting where you have not sown and gathering where you have not scattered seed. So I was afraid and went out and hid your talent in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.”
How did the master, who represents Jesus in this parable, respond to his servant who brought no increase with his talent of money?
Did the master extend him mercy and grace? Did the master feel sorry for him? Did he take talents of money from the servant who had earned the most and give some to him? The answer is no to all of these questions.
In fact, the master dealt harshly with the servant who did not steward his talent of money well and take advantage of his opportunity to bring increase. His master replied, “You wicked, lazy servant! Take the talent from him and give it to the one who has the ten talents. For everyone who has will be given more, and he will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him. And throw that worthless servant outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”
Yes—Jesus does spread the wealth around. However, He does it in a way that is contrary to many of the tax policies proposed today. Like a wise businessman, he gives more to those who have proven themselves to be good stewards. Instead of taking from the productive servant to give to the unproductive servant, he does the opposite.
Jesus “redistributes wealth”! To those who work hard and take advantage of opportunities to bring increase Jesus gives them more. To those who are poor stewards and don’t work hard or take advantage of their opportunities to bring increase get less. They get their talents of money taken away and their “wealth” is given to the better stewards.
Our government should receive taxes so they can administer justice by protecting law abiding citizens and punishing criminals. They should not receive taxes to spread the wealth around.
Taxes are for vital services to its citizens not wealth redistribution.
Does Jesus have anything to say about this by giving us an example to look at in the Bible? Yes! The Parable of the Talents in Matthew 25:14-30 gives us many points to think about concerning this issue. I implore you to read this parable right now.
Jesus would spread the wealth around, but not in the way you might think.
Jesus taught about His way of “redistributing wealth”. Matthew 25:14-18 says, “14"Again, it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted his property to them. 15To one he gave five talents of money, to another two talents, and to another one talent, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. 16The man who had received the five talents went at once and put his money to work and gained five more. 17So also, the one with the two talents gained two more. 18But the man who had received the one talent went off, dug a hole in the ground and hid his master's money.
First, I want to point out the fact that the master does not entrust each servant with an equal amount of his property. One servant received five talents of money, one servant received two talents of money, and the other servant received one talent of money. Although the servants were not given equal amounts of money, they were given the same opportunity to increase the owner’s property under their stewardship. Jesus does not expect everyone to have equal amounts, just equal opportunity.
How did the servants with five and two talents do with the master’s money?
The man who received the five talents gained five more. The man who received two talents gained two more. To each of them, the master replied, “Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things.” Jesus only gives more things to His servants who have been good stewards of a few things.
How did the servant with one talent do with the master’s money?
The man who received one talent came to his master and said, “I knew that you are a hard man, harvesting where you have not sown and gathering where you have not scattered seed. So I was afraid and went out and hid your talent in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.”
How did the master, who represents Jesus in this parable, respond to his servant who brought no increase with his talent of money?
Did the master extend him mercy and grace? Did the master feel sorry for him? Did he take talents of money from the servant who had earned the most and give some to him? The answer is no to all of these questions.
In fact, the master dealt harshly with the servant who did not steward his talent of money well and take advantage of his opportunity to bring increase. His master replied, “You wicked, lazy servant! Take the talent from him and give it to the one who has the ten talents. For everyone who has will be given more, and he will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him. And throw that worthless servant outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”
Yes—Jesus does spread the wealth around. However, He does it in a way that is contrary to many of the tax policies proposed today. Like a wise businessman, he gives more to those who have proven themselves to be good stewards. Instead of taking from the productive servant to give to the unproductive servant, he does the opposite.
Jesus “redistributes wealth”! To those who work hard and take advantage of opportunities to bring increase Jesus gives them more. To those who are poor stewards and don’t work hard or take advantage of their opportunities to bring increase get less. They get their talents of money taken away and their “wealth” is given to the better stewards.
Our government should receive taxes so they can administer justice by protecting law abiding citizens and punishing criminals. They should not receive taxes to spread the wealth around.
Taxes are for vital services to its citizens not wealth redistribution.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
What Can Bring Us Together?
While watching “On the Record with Greta”, I was deeply touched by her interview with George H.W. Bush and Bill Clinton. The two former presidents are working together to help the victims of hurricane Ike.
Yes, you read the last sentence correctly. Political adversaries Bush and Clinton are putting aside their partisan politics to serve others in need.
In the interview, Greta’s first comment addressed the reality that there has to be something greater than their own personal agendas that brought them together. She said, “It is always-I don't know if "interesting" is the right word, but to see the two of you together. It means that there is a cause, a reason.”
What can bring two political adversaries together?
The answer is a worthy cause.
Greta also drew attention to the satisfaction we experience when we help others. She said, “But there also must be an incredible sense of satisfaction that you can do this.” After her statement, both former presidents commented on how they are being more blessed through their service than those they are helping.
Read their responses below:
BUSH: No question about that. If you help someone else, you are the one that is helped the most. We both feel that way about the charitable work we are involved in.
CLINTON: Yes.
BUSH: And we both try to do a lot of other stuff. But working together on this has been extraordinarily satisfying to me. And I think it has awakened the better nature in a lot of Americans when they see two people with obviously political differences coming together to help people. That is what this is about. And it is nice to have it out of politics, beyond the political reach.
CLINTON: We have gotten a lot more out of this than we have given-way more.
I believe Jesus is the Lord and Savior of the world. I believe that He lived an exemplary life for all to follow. I believe if every citizen obeyed His teaching our nation would be more unified and dignified. I believe the cause of Christ is the most worthy cause to serve.
Everything God wants us to know and do in life can be summed up in Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 7:12. It says, “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”
I think former presidents and political enemies Bush and Clinton agree.
Do you?
Yes, you read the last sentence correctly. Political adversaries Bush and Clinton are putting aside their partisan politics to serve others in need.
In the interview, Greta’s first comment addressed the reality that there has to be something greater than their own personal agendas that brought them together. She said, “It is always-I don't know if "interesting" is the right word, but to see the two of you together. It means that there is a cause, a reason.”
What can bring two political adversaries together?
The answer is a worthy cause.
Greta also drew attention to the satisfaction we experience when we help others. She said, “But there also must be an incredible sense of satisfaction that you can do this.” After her statement, both former presidents commented on how they are being more blessed through their service than those they are helping.
Read their responses below:
BUSH: No question about that. If you help someone else, you are the one that is helped the most. We both feel that way about the charitable work we are involved in.
CLINTON: Yes.
BUSH: And we both try to do a lot of other stuff. But working together on this has been extraordinarily satisfying to me. And I think it has awakened the better nature in a lot of Americans when they see two people with obviously political differences coming together to help people. That is what this is about. And it is nice to have it out of politics, beyond the political reach.
CLINTON: We have gotten a lot more out of this than we have given-way more.
I believe Jesus is the Lord and Savior of the world. I believe that He lived an exemplary life for all to follow. I believe if every citizen obeyed His teaching our nation would be more unified and dignified. I believe the cause of Christ is the most worthy cause to serve.
Everything God wants us to know and do in life can be summed up in Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 7:12. It says, “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”
I think former presidents and political enemies Bush and Clinton agree.
Do you?
Monday, October 13, 2008
A Heartbeat Away!
On August 29th, 2008 John McCain surprised the country when he chose the Governor of Alaska, Sarah Palin, to be his Vice Presidential running mate. Immediately, following the announcement, citizens of the United States went into a frenzy trying to locate more information about Palin.
It was quite interesting and entertaining to watch the news stations report on the opinions of Americans the week following McCain’s selection. Even though Governor Palin has the highest approval rating of any governor in the United States, many questioned John McCain’s choice and Sarah Palin’s qualifications.
A spokesman for Barack Obama, Bill Burton, issued a statement after receiving information concerning McCain’s decision to choose Palin as his running mate. He said, "Today, John McCain put the former mayor of a town of 9,000 with zero foreign policy experience a heartbeat away from the presidency.”
Some political pundits and movie actor, Matt Damon, picked up on Burton’s sound bite “a heartbeat away”. They used it frequently to verbally express their displeasure over the possibility that Sarah Palin could be our president if McCain won and then died during his tenure as president.
A heartbeat away! Would Sarah Palin be ready to take over the presidency of the United States?
As my heart pounded in my chest while working out the other day, I couldn’t stop thinking about the words, “a heartbeat away”. I had just finished reading the ninth chapter of Hebrews in my Bible on the stationary bike. One particular verse stood out to me in this chapter.
It was Hebrews 9:27. It says, “Just as man/woman is destined to die once, and after that to face judgment.”
You might not agree with everything I write. However, it is an undeniable reality that we will all die one day. This scripture reminds us that every person on the planet is “a heartbeat away” from death and then judgment. This scripture also reminds us that we should live each day to honor God and please Him with the life He has blessed us with.
A heartbeat away! Are you ready to stand before God and face judgment?
It was quite interesting and entertaining to watch the news stations report on the opinions of Americans the week following McCain’s selection. Even though Governor Palin has the highest approval rating of any governor in the United States, many questioned John McCain’s choice and Sarah Palin’s qualifications.
A spokesman for Barack Obama, Bill Burton, issued a statement after receiving information concerning McCain’s decision to choose Palin as his running mate. He said, "Today, John McCain put the former mayor of a town of 9,000 with zero foreign policy experience a heartbeat away from the presidency.”
Some political pundits and movie actor, Matt Damon, picked up on Burton’s sound bite “a heartbeat away”. They used it frequently to verbally express their displeasure over the possibility that Sarah Palin could be our president if McCain won and then died during his tenure as president.
A heartbeat away! Would Sarah Palin be ready to take over the presidency of the United States?
As my heart pounded in my chest while working out the other day, I couldn’t stop thinking about the words, “a heartbeat away”. I had just finished reading the ninth chapter of Hebrews in my Bible on the stationary bike. One particular verse stood out to me in this chapter.
It was Hebrews 9:27. It says, “Just as man/woman is destined to die once, and after that to face judgment.”
You might not agree with everything I write. However, it is an undeniable reality that we will all die one day. This scripture reminds us that every person on the planet is “a heartbeat away” from death and then judgment. This scripture also reminds us that we should live each day to honor God and please Him with the life He has blessed us with.
A heartbeat away! Are you ready to stand before God and face judgment?
Sunday, October 05, 2008
Suit on Sunday and Crocs with Socks (Part 2)
My last blog, Suit on Sunday and Crocs with Socks, has created quite a stir. I have received compliments for my ties and rebukes for my crocs with socks. I know you have been anxiously waiting to read part two—so here it is.Remember, the goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith (1 Timothy 1:5).
Why do I wear a suit on Sunday?
(1) I like to dress up once a week, and let me reemphasize, only once a week. Sunday morning is the time I like to wear my nicest clothes. If I wore a suit all week, I would probably attend church wearing crocs with socks—oh no! If I were you, I would not wear a suit on Sunday.
(2) If I didn’t wear my suits on Sundays, when would I wear them? It would be poor stewardship and a waste to let my suits just hang in the closets.
(3) Others, like me, prefer to dress up on Sunday mornings. My suit might make them feel more comfortable.
(4) It feels good to receive compliments like, “You look nice.” This doesn’t happen when I wear crocs with socks—darn.
(5) Wearing a suit on Sunday appeals to my meticulous personality. I love to match my clothes. Yes, in case you are wondering, I dress myself (no help from the wife).
(6) If I were not a pastor, I would work as a haberdasher at Nic’s Toggery.
(7) If I wore another outfit, I would be copying someone else and would feel insincere as a person. I know this could change one day.
(8) Wearing a suit on Sunday is not a moral or ethical issue. My heart is pure, my conscience is clean and my faith is sincere when I am wearing a suit.
(9) To quote Will Smith in Men in Black, “I make it look good!” (Ha Ha) Thanks for the compliments. (I know # 9 contradicts # 8—I am just trying to be funny, so lighten up)
Why do I wear crocs with socks?
(1) I want my feet to be comfortable. After twenty years of running up and down a basketball court, I think I have earned this right.
(2) Wearing crocs with socks is not a moral or ethical issue. My heart is pure, my conscience is clean and my faith is sincere when I am wearing crocs with socks.
(3) As I approach forty, I am secure enough to not care what people think about my crocs with socks.
(4) Did I mention I want my feet to be comfortable? I want my feet to be comfortable. I want my feet to be comfortable. I want my feet to be comfortable.
What is the point of this blog?
First, I want to remind you to be a sincere and authentic person in everything you do so others will be attracted to you. Live to be who God created you to be and live to please Him as you bless others.
Second, I want people to come as they are to Every Nation Tallahassee. If you wear flip-flops or a suit, it doesn’t matter to me. Either way, I won’t judge you negatively. Please feel free to dress cool, comfortable, casual or nice. Just make sure you don’t dress provocative (you know the difference). Our sincerity should never be a stumbling block to others.
Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak. 1 Corinthians 8:9
P.S. In case you are wondering, I don’t wear a suit on Sunday and crocs with socks together at the same time. I’m not that secure!
Is this blog cool? I would love to hear what you think.
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Suit on Sunday and Crocs with Socks
Do I want to be comfortable or cool? That is the question.
If you asked me this question fifteen years ago, I would have definitively answered “cool”. Today, if I had to choose between the two, I would unapologetically pick comfort. Actually, I would prefer a good balance of coolness and comfort.
Over the last month, I have engaged in two conversations with younger members of my staff about my dress attire throughout the week.
The first conversation was about the suits I wear on Sunday. My younger and cooler staff member was trying to convince me that my suits are a hindrance to reaching the next generation. Does my suit really deter people from coming to church or coming back once they have attended? I refuse to believe the younger generation is this shallow.
In the second conversation, my other younger and more socially adept staff member was rebuking me for wearing crocs with socks. Evidently, this is a huge fashion faux pas. Who makes these rules anyway?
Since I am an un-cool, but wiser older guy, I just listened as they educated me on reaching out to the younger generation, relevance and coolness. I was slow to speak and quick to listen. However, I cannot contain my thoughts any longer. So, you have the privilege of being the first ones to read my response.
1 Timothy 1:5 says, “The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.”
What does it mean to be sincere? It means a person is genuine and free of deceit, hypocrisy or falseness
.
I am a firm believer in the attractiveness of authenticity. It is more important to be authentic than cool or relevant. If possible, I think people should strive to be both. However, at the end of the day, people are more drawn to those who are sincere.
Why do I wear a suit on Sunday and crocs with socks? I am just being me. These are external expressions of the sincere, genuine and authentic Ronald Rudolph Miller, Jr.
For those who are not satisfied with my response up to this point stay tuned for part two of Suit on Sunday and Crocs with Socks.
Tell me what you think while you are waiting.
If you asked me this question fifteen years ago, I would have definitively answered “cool”. Today, if I had to choose between the two, I would unapologetically pick comfort. Actually, I would prefer a good balance of coolness and comfort.
Over the last month, I have engaged in two conversations with younger members of my staff about my dress attire throughout the week.
The first conversation was about the suits I wear on Sunday. My younger and cooler staff member was trying to convince me that my suits are a hindrance to reaching the next generation. Does my suit really deter people from coming to church or coming back once they have attended? I refuse to believe the younger generation is this shallow.
In the second conversation, my other younger and more socially adept staff member was rebuking me for wearing crocs with socks. Evidently, this is a huge fashion faux pas. Who makes these rules anyway?
Since I am an un-cool, but wiser older guy, I just listened as they educated me on reaching out to the younger generation, relevance and coolness. I was slow to speak and quick to listen. However, I cannot contain my thoughts any longer. So, you have the privilege of being the first ones to read my response.
1 Timothy 1:5 says, “The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.”
What does it mean to be sincere? It means a person is genuine and free of deceit, hypocrisy or falseness
.
I am a firm believer in the attractiveness of authenticity. It is more important to be authentic than cool or relevant. If possible, I think people should strive to be both. However, at the end of the day, people are more drawn to those who are sincere.
Why do I wear a suit on Sunday and crocs with socks? I am just being me. These are external expressions of the sincere, genuine and authentic Ronald Rudolph Miller, Jr.
For those who are not satisfied with my response up to this point stay tuned for part two of Suit on Sunday and Crocs with Socks.
Tell me what you think while you are waiting.
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Promoting Self by Putting Others Down
And the men who hold high places must be the ones to start
To mould a new reality…closer to the heart (Rush)
You might wonder, “Why is Ron Miller, Jr. a Christ follower?” My simple answer is that no one has ever compelled me to good deeds more than Jesus Christ. His life was one of sacrifice and service. Jesus is worthy to be worshipped, celebrated and followed because He died for the sins of humanity. I pledge my allegiance to Jesus because He gave his life to give me a better life. I will forever feel a sense of indebtedness to live a life worthy of this sacrifice.
In John 15:13, Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down hid life for his friends.” Jesus used his high place as the King of kings and Lord of lords to mold a new reality by sacrificing His life for others.
This morning, on 9/11/08, I woke up and turned on my favorite early morning news show—Morning Joe. This week has been so busy I forgot that today is the seventh year after the most destructive and horrific terrorist attack on American soil. As I watched the tributes to our fallen heroes and gazed upon the memorials, my heart was stirred by the sacrifice and service of the brave men and women who lost their lives on that tragic day.
In today’s world, as we are bombarded with negative stories on news channels, I am constantly longing for a story that inspires me. Once again, as I watched the tributes to our 9/11 heroes, I found such a moment.
It was refreshing to witness John McCain and Barack Obama visit the tribute at the site of the World Trade Center and shake hands of people who had lost loved ones on 9/11. It was good to see our governmental leaders standing together in unity.
I had another moment of inspiration this year and it was during the Olympics. I know most Americans were elated to watch athletes like Michael Phlelps set Olympic records for Gold medals and witness many Olympians break world records. I concur that these were awesome moments.
However, there were Olympic moments that touched me deeper than the world record events. It was the sportsmanship that I saw during the contests. I was blessed to witness Olympians compete against one another and then hug and congratulate their opponent while saying, “good job” after the event or race. Their complement was a great sign of respect and an acknowledgement that competition makes all of us better. It was as if they were saying, “Thank you for motivating me to train harder by giving me your best.”
Why I am writing this blog? I am writing this blog because I am disappointed at the lack of civility and sportsmanship I witness in our society today. I don’t like to see an athlete scoffing another athlete during competition. They should be gracious in victory. I am tired of listening to speeches by our politicians that contain more negative content about their opponent than solutions to the problems we face today as a nation. I want leaders who don’t have to put others down to promote themselves. I have no problem when they raise awareness about the differences in policies. I just wish they would do it with tact and humility. It agitates me when commentators like Bill O’Reilly and Keith Olbermann make demeaning statements about one another. Why can’t they report and comment on the news without deriding each other?
When I was a young athlete, my father taught me to always let the scoreboard do the talking. In other words, don’t put others down to promote yourself.
It is the epitome of insecurity and smallness when people say something derogatory about someone else or taunt them to promote themselves and their agendas. I will not fall for or tolerate such tactics.
On this 9/11 day of remembrance, I salute and thank all those people who lost their lives to help others. Their stories are great reminders to us all that living your life to lift people up is always better than living it to pull them down.
Let’s forge a new reality by holding our leaders of this nation accountable to use their influence and talents to lift people up. And, let’s do our part to honor the sacrifice of Jesus and the fallen heroes of 9/11 by committing to live a life of service with a good attitude and gratitude of heart.
To mould a new reality…closer to the heart (Rush)
You might wonder, “Why is Ron Miller, Jr. a Christ follower?” My simple answer is that no one has ever compelled me to good deeds more than Jesus Christ. His life was one of sacrifice and service. Jesus is worthy to be worshipped, celebrated and followed because He died for the sins of humanity. I pledge my allegiance to Jesus because He gave his life to give me a better life. I will forever feel a sense of indebtedness to live a life worthy of this sacrifice.
In John 15:13, Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down hid life for his friends.” Jesus used his high place as the King of kings and Lord of lords to mold a new reality by sacrificing His life for others.
This morning, on 9/11/08, I woke up and turned on my favorite early morning news show—Morning Joe. This week has been so busy I forgot that today is the seventh year after the most destructive and horrific terrorist attack on American soil. As I watched the tributes to our fallen heroes and gazed upon the memorials, my heart was stirred by the sacrifice and service of the brave men and women who lost their lives on that tragic day.
In today’s world, as we are bombarded with negative stories on news channels, I am constantly longing for a story that inspires me. Once again, as I watched the tributes to our 9/11 heroes, I found such a moment.
It was refreshing to witness John McCain and Barack Obama visit the tribute at the site of the World Trade Center and shake hands of people who had lost loved ones on 9/11. It was good to see our governmental leaders standing together in unity.
I had another moment of inspiration this year and it was during the Olympics. I know most Americans were elated to watch athletes like Michael Phlelps set Olympic records for Gold medals and witness many Olympians break world records. I concur that these were awesome moments.
However, there were Olympic moments that touched me deeper than the world record events. It was the sportsmanship that I saw during the contests. I was blessed to witness Olympians compete against one another and then hug and congratulate their opponent while saying, “good job” after the event or race. Their complement was a great sign of respect and an acknowledgement that competition makes all of us better. It was as if they were saying, “Thank you for motivating me to train harder by giving me your best.”
Why I am writing this blog? I am writing this blog because I am disappointed at the lack of civility and sportsmanship I witness in our society today. I don’t like to see an athlete scoffing another athlete during competition. They should be gracious in victory. I am tired of listening to speeches by our politicians that contain more negative content about their opponent than solutions to the problems we face today as a nation. I want leaders who don’t have to put others down to promote themselves. I have no problem when they raise awareness about the differences in policies. I just wish they would do it with tact and humility. It agitates me when commentators like Bill O’Reilly and Keith Olbermann make demeaning statements about one another. Why can’t they report and comment on the news without deriding each other?
When I was a young athlete, my father taught me to always let the scoreboard do the talking. In other words, don’t put others down to promote yourself.
It is the epitome of insecurity and smallness when people say something derogatory about someone else or taunt them to promote themselves and their agendas. I will not fall for or tolerate such tactics.
On this 9/11 day of remembrance, I salute and thank all those people who lost their lives to help others. Their stories are great reminders to us all that living your life to lift people up is always better than living it to pull them down.
Let’s forge a new reality by holding our leaders of this nation accountable to use their influence and talents to lift people up. And, let’s do our part to honor the sacrifice of Jesus and the fallen heroes of 9/11 by committing to live a life of service with a good attitude and gratitude of heart.
Sunday, September 07, 2008
A Cosmic As Well As Historic Truth
In Mark 10:35 Jesus said, “45For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."
After their small-minded request, Jesus reminded James and John what their mindsets and attitudes should be like as they followed Him. In Matthew 16:24, Jesus taught his disciples that the key to good service was self denial. He said, “"If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” Apostle Paul identified the number one sign of terrible times in the last days is people being lovers of themselves (2 Timothy 3:1-2).
Jesus would model to perfection a life of sacrifice and service, and consummate His mission on earth by dying on a cross for the sins of humanity. Reinhold Niebuhr said, “The cross symbolizes a cosmic as well as historic truth. Love conquers the world, but its victory is not an easy one.”
We are to not only deny ourselves, but take up the cross as well as we follow Jesus. As we carry the cross it reminds us of the responsibility we now have to serve others and lead them to Christ. It is on the cross that Jesus said He would draw all men to Himself (John 12:32).
Remember, sacrifice and service always attracts people. As we embrace suffering by stepping out of our world of comfort, we develop the character of Christ and His capacity to care for others.
In Galatians 6:14, Apostle Paul wrote about the cross and divulged the revelation he had received from Christ about his responsibility to serve the world by preaching the mystery of the gospel. He said, “14 May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which[a] the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.”
The cross is “I” crossed out. Author unknown
Apostle Paul became great because: The greatest are the ones who live to impact the lives of others.
After their small-minded request, Jesus reminded James and John what their mindsets and attitudes should be like as they followed Him. In Matthew 16:24, Jesus taught his disciples that the key to good service was self denial. He said, “"If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” Apostle Paul identified the number one sign of terrible times in the last days is people being lovers of themselves (2 Timothy 3:1-2).
Jesus would model to perfection a life of sacrifice and service, and consummate His mission on earth by dying on a cross for the sins of humanity. Reinhold Niebuhr said, “The cross symbolizes a cosmic as well as historic truth. Love conquers the world, but its victory is not an easy one.”
We are to not only deny ourselves, but take up the cross as well as we follow Jesus. As we carry the cross it reminds us of the responsibility we now have to serve others and lead them to Christ. It is on the cross that Jesus said He would draw all men to Himself (John 12:32).
Remember, sacrifice and service always attracts people. As we embrace suffering by stepping out of our world of comfort, we develop the character of Christ and His capacity to care for others.
In Galatians 6:14, Apostle Paul wrote about the cross and divulged the revelation he had received from Christ about his responsibility to serve the world by preaching the mystery of the gospel. He said, “14 May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which[a] the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.”
The cross is “I” crossed out. Author unknown
Apostle Paul became great because: The greatest are the ones who live to impact the lives of others.
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Live to Impact (Part 3)
When the ten heard about this (the request of James and John to sit at the right and left of Jesus in His glory), they became indignant with James and John. Mark 10:41
When we live for self instead of living to serve, we negatively impact others around us. When I saw those toenails on the gym floor, I became enraged. When the ten other disciples heard the thoughtless and inconsiderate request of James and John they became indignant.
Why? It upsets us when people only think of their own interests. When people are upset and angry with our behavior, they will not be drawn to us. Our actions will either attract people to us or repel people from us. An act of service leads to a life of impact because it positively influences others and opens their hearts to the kindness of God.
Life quickly teaches us that people usually act in such a manner to profit themselves. Service is the antithesis to selfishness and is a powerful apologetic for the goodness of God. People are not used to individuals doing something to benefit their life with no hidden agenda.
I love the following adage from an unknown author. It says, “I sought my soul, but my soul I could not see. I sought my God, but my God eluded me. I sought my brother, and I found all three.”
It is true that when we live only to seek our soul, or in other words, live only for the pleasure of self, the satisfaction we seek can not be found. When we seek God, like James and John, for what He will do for us, God will elude us. However, when we “seek our brother”, which is the most pragmatic way to display altruistic behavior; selfishness is weeded out of our lives. When we live to serve others, we find our soul or the reason we exist. When we live to serve others, we find God.
James 1:27 says, “27Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”
When we live to serve others, we become extraordinary because: The greatest are the ones who live to impact the lives of others.
When we live for self instead of living to serve, we negatively impact others around us. When I saw those toenails on the gym floor, I became enraged. When the ten other disciples heard the thoughtless and inconsiderate request of James and John they became indignant.
Why? It upsets us when people only think of their own interests. When people are upset and angry with our behavior, they will not be drawn to us. Our actions will either attract people to us or repel people from us. An act of service leads to a life of impact because it positively influences others and opens their hearts to the kindness of God.
Life quickly teaches us that people usually act in such a manner to profit themselves. Service is the antithesis to selfishness and is a powerful apologetic for the goodness of God. People are not used to individuals doing something to benefit their life with no hidden agenda.
I love the following adage from an unknown author. It says, “I sought my soul, but my soul I could not see. I sought my God, but my God eluded me. I sought my brother, and I found all three.”
It is true that when we live only to seek our soul, or in other words, live only for the pleasure of self, the satisfaction we seek can not be found. When we seek God, like James and John, for what He will do for us, God will elude us. However, when we “seek our brother”, which is the most pragmatic way to display altruistic behavior; selfishness is weeded out of our lives. When we live to serve others, we find our soul or the reason we exist. When we live to serve others, we find God.
James 1:27 says, “27Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”
When we live to serve others, we become extraordinary because: The greatest are the ones who live to impact the lives of others.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Live to Impact: Timing is Everything
As I have matured in my relationship with my wife Cindy, I have become more sensitive and aware of how her emotional state throughout the day. After a long day keeping up with three little boys and rushing to get dinner on the table, I have learned that this is not the best time of the day to ask her to do something for me. Instead, it is an opportune time to ask her if I can serve her in any capacity.
In fact, experts in marriage have written books revealing that sexual intimacy with your wife begins in the kitchen. As husbands serve their wives in this stressful time of the day, it draws their hearts closer to their spouses.
Timing is everything.
On the other hand, my callow boys who lack discernment do not have the capacity to recognize this hectic moment of the day. They have no sense of timing. They will constantly bombard their busy mother with requests until they are rebuked for being so dim-sighted. In their immaturity, all they can see and think about is their own needs or selfish desires.
In the rest of this blog, I want to focus on two people who matured as leaders and made a big impact on their world. They are two of Christ’s disciples and their names are James and John, the sons of Zebedee. James and John, along with Peter, formed Jesus’ most innermost circle of associates. James would so embody the message of Christ that he became the first of the twelve disciples to be martyred.
Five books in the New Testament have been attributed to John the Apostle: the Gospel, three epistles, and Revelation. John would so embody the message of Christ that he became known as the “Beloved Disciple”. In 1 John 3:16 he writes, “16This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.”
Both of these men sacrificed tremendously and lived to serve others for Jesus. Their examples of faith are a great reminder and a source of inspiration of how we are supposed to live as followers of Christ. However, their lives were not always a model of service to be emulated.
Let’s take a deeper look in Mark 10:32-45.
32Again he took the Twelve aside and told them what was going to happen to him. 33"We are going up to Jerusalem," he said, "and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will hand him over to the Gentiles, 34who will mock him and spit on him, flog him and kill him. Three days later he will rise."
35Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to him. "Teacher," they said, "we want you to do for us whatever we ask." 36"What do you want me to do for you?" he asked. 37They replied, "Let one of us sit at your right and the other at your left in your glory."
Can you believe the timing of their request?
As Jesus took the twelve aside and told them what kind of death he was going to suffer in order to save people from their sins, I am astounded by the response of James and John. A sympathetic thought or comment extended to Jesus would have been nice.
Instead, James and John did not display empathy or emotional intelligence. Their self absorbed myopia robbed them of making an intimate connection with the Lord. It also exposed the motive of their heart. Up to this point, they were following Jesus for a privileged place in his administration. They were seeking position and power. James and John were clueless about the real reason Christ had called them to follow Him.
When God discloses information to us, it is so that we might become more engaged with Him and His will, not so He might become more engaged with us and our will.
Can you think of a moment in your life, when you missed the opportunity to impact someone else, because you were only thinking of your own interests?
In fact, experts in marriage have written books revealing that sexual intimacy with your wife begins in the kitchen. As husbands serve their wives in this stressful time of the day, it draws their hearts closer to their spouses.
Timing is everything.
On the other hand, my callow boys who lack discernment do not have the capacity to recognize this hectic moment of the day. They have no sense of timing. They will constantly bombard their busy mother with requests until they are rebuked for being so dim-sighted. In their immaturity, all they can see and think about is their own needs or selfish desires.
In the rest of this blog, I want to focus on two people who matured as leaders and made a big impact on their world. They are two of Christ’s disciples and their names are James and John, the sons of Zebedee. James and John, along with Peter, formed Jesus’ most innermost circle of associates. James would so embody the message of Christ that he became the first of the twelve disciples to be martyred.
Five books in the New Testament have been attributed to John the Apostle: the Gospel, three epistles, and Revelation. John would so embody the message of Christ that he became known as the “Beloved Disciple”. In 1 John 3:16 he writes, “16This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.”
Both of these men sacrificed tremendously and lived to serve others for Jesus. Their examples of faith are a great reminder and a source of inspiration of how we are supposed to live as followers of Christ. However, their lives were not always a model of service to be emulated.
Let’s take a deeper look in Mark 10:32-45.
32Again he took the Twelve aside and told them what was going to happen to him. 33"We are going up to Jerusalem," he said, "and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will hand him over to the Gentiles, 34who will mock him and spit on him, flog him and kill him. Three days later he will rise."
35Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to him. "Teacher," they said, "we want you to do for us whatever we ask." 36"What do you want me to do for you?" he asked. 37They replied, "Let one of us sit at your right and the other at your left in your glory."
Can you believe the timing of their request?
As Jesus took the twelve aside and told them what kind of death he was going to suffer in order to save people from their sins, I am astounded by the response of James and John. A sympathetic thought or comment extended to Jesus would have been nice.
Instead, James and John did not display empathy or emotional intelligence. Their self absorbed myopia robbed them of making an intimate connection with the Lord. It also exposed the motive of their heart. Up to this point, they were following Jesus for a privileged place in his administration. They were seeking position and power. James and John were clueless about the real reason Christ had called them to follow Him.
When God discloses information to us, it is so that we might become more engaged with Him and His will, not so He might become more engaged with us and our will.
Can you think of a moment in your life, when you missed the opportunity to impact someone else, because you were only thinking of your own interests?
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Live to Impact
After fourteen years of speaking to a familiar audience, it can be quite challenging to come up with original sermon illustrations. My “Live to Impact” message was no exception. So, I began praying hard to the Lord for help in finding a story that would relate to my message on service. I really wanted to use an example on selfishness. I mentally referenced my customary places of resources such as marriage and children to uncover the perfect illustration. I was pretty confident in myself to have recently done something selfish to Cindy. However, as I diligently searched for a story, I could not procure what I was looking for.
As my five week review began to draw closer, I started to panic with the thoughts of not being able to find a story on selfishness. Tuesday morning after prayer, I drove to the gym for my routine workout and Bible study. While in the locker room, I ran into an old buddy who I used to run with on the FSU track while in graduate school. As we were “catching up” with one another, I looked down on the carpet next to my locker and could not believe what I saw with my eyes.
I had found my perfect illustration on selfishness for this Sunday message. Somebody had cut their long and nasty toenails and left them lying on the carpet. Since I had just finished taking a shower, I was barefoot and I think I stepped on some of the toe nails. As I drew my friends attention to my latest sermon illustration, we both shook our heads while saying, “Oooooh!”
Immediately, I became a double-minded and unstable man. One part of me was elated and jumping with joy that I had found a great illustration on selfishness. The other part of me was grossed out at the thought of someone leaving their unsavory toenails on the locker room carpet.
We have all been negatively impacted by people who act selfish. We can all think of instances, maybe not this reprehensible, where somebody upset us because they were only thinking about themselves. Also, we all can think of moments when we hurt others because we were only looking out for our own interests. We all know it does not take much effort at all to act selfish.
If selfishness negatively impacts people, what is the greatest way to make a positive impact on a person?
1 Corinthians 10:23-24 says, “23"Everything is permissible"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"—but not everything is constructive. 24 Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others.”
Leaving odious toe nails on the gym carpet is not beneficial or constructive, and it is certainly not seeking the good of others.
Conducting our behavior in such a way that demonstrates we are considerate of the interests of others is the greatest way we can live to impact.
As my five week review began to draw closer, I started to panic with the thoughts of not being able to find a story on selfishness. Tuesday morning after prayer, I drove to the gym for my routine workout and Bible study. While in the locker room, I ran into an old buddy who I used to run with on the FSU track while in graduate school. As we were “catching up” with one another, I looked down on the carpet next to my locker and could not believe what I saw with my eyes.
I had found my perfect illustration on selfishness for this Sunday message. Somebody had cut their long and nasty toenails and left them lying on the carpet. Since I had just finished taking a shower, I was barefoot and I think I stepped on some of the toe nails. As I drew my friends attention to my latest sermon illustration, we both shook our heads while saying, “Oooooh!”
Immediately, I became a double-minded and unstable man. One part of me was elated and jumping with joy that I had found a great illustration on selfishness. The other part of me was grossed out at the thought of someone leaving their unsavory toenails on the locker room carpet.
We have all been negatively impacted by people who act selfish. We can all think of instances, maybe not this reprehensible, where somebody upset us because they were only thinking about themselves. Also, we all can think of moments when we hurt others because we were only looking out for our own interests. We all know it does not take much effort at all to act selfish.
If selfishness negatively impacts people, what is the greatest way to make a positive impact on a person?
1 Corinthians 10:23-24 says, “23"Everything is permissible"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"—but not everything is constructive. 24 Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others.”
Leaving odious toe nails on the gym carpet is not beneficial or constructive, and it is certainly not seeking the good of others.
Conducting our behavior in such a way that demonstrates we are considerate of the interests of others is the greatest way we can live to impact.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Who is our Real Enemy? (Part 3)
When Satan can no longer deceive us because we live by the truth of God’s word, and when he can no longer cause us to fall into temptation because we are righteous, he then turns to his third weapon of accusation. Because Satan cannot defeat us, he uses accusation to get Christians to battle against one another and change the focus of their fight.
The most subtle weapon in Satan’s arsenal is accusation. He is the master accuser. He accuses God, producing doubt. He accuses our fellow Christians, resulting in division. He accuses our spiritual leaders, creating gossip. He even accuses us to ourselves, causing condemnation.
God has given us the weapon of love to combat accusation. A person who lives in God’s love keeps no record of wrongs and is always willing to humble themselves in any relationship. A person who loves is willing to repent or forgive in order to reconcile.
“Then I heard a loud voice in heaven say: “Now have come the salvation and the power and the kingdom of our God, and the authority of his Christ. For the accuser of our brothers, who accuses them before our God day and night, has been hurled down. They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; they did not love their lives so much as to shrink from death. 12Therefore rejoice, you heavens and you who dwell in them!”” –Revelation 12:10-12
Stand Up and Fight
God has not left us defenseless. He has equipped us with spiritual weapons and spiritual armor so we can stand up and fight the devil. Through faith in Christ, we can walk in victory over every attack of our enemy.
“Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” -Ephesians 6:11-17
The most subtle weapon in Satan’s arsenal is accusation. He is the master accuser. He accuses God, producing doubt. He accuses our fellow Christians, resulting in division. He accuses our spiritual leaders, creating gossip. He even accuses us to ourselves, causing condemnation.
God has given us the weapon of love to combat accusation. A person who lives in God’s love keeps no record of wrongs and is always willing to humble themselves in any relationship. A person who loves is willing to repent or forgive in order to reconcile.
“Then I heard a loud voice in heaven say: “Now have come the salvation and the power and the kingdom of our God, and the authority of his Christ. For the accuser of our brothers, who accuses them before our God day and night, has been hurled down. They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; they did not love their lives so much as to shrink from death. 12Therefore rejoice, you heavens and you who dwell in them!”” –Revelation 12:10-12
Stand Up and Fight
God has not left us defenseless. He has equipped us with spiritual weapons and spiritual armor so we can stand up and fight the devil. Through faith in Christ, we can walk in victory over every attack of our enemy.
“Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” -Ephesians 6:11-17
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Who is our Real Enemy? (Part 2)
For every wrong choice or bad decision we make, God gives us the opportunity to make the right choice or a good decision.
1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.”
Once we are able to see life through the lens of truth, we disable one of Satan’s chief methods of attack. When Satan is no longer able to deceive us, he turns to his weapon of temptation. If deception doesn’t work, Satan does not give up. He goes to plan-B, temptation.
One of Satan’s favorite methods of attack is temptation. But God has promised that we can have victory over temptation.
James 1:13-15 says, “13When tempted, no one should say, "God is tempting me." For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; 14but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. 15Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.”
According to this passage of scripture, we have two enemies we must overcome. The first is Satan, and the second is our sinful nature. Temptation appeals to our evil desires as it tries to persuade us into wrongdoing by offering us some kind of pleasure or reward. Then, as we continue to imagine or think about the immediate pleasure or reward of our evil action, sin is conceived in our soul. Once sin is conceived, just like a baby in a mother’s womb, it will eventually grow to full term and have to be birthed. Then, after our evil desires are birthed or acted upon, they grow up and become the regular part of our behavior. Eventually, falling into temptation will lead us to death.
Anytime we fall into temptation, our hearts become hardened and our consciences become seared. With hard hearts and seared consciences, we are able to sin without any regret or remorse. The more we sin, the more we allow Satan to work his destructive agenda through our lives. For example, when we feed the evil desire of lust it leads to such sins as adultery, pedophilia and homosexuality. When we feed the evil desire of anger it leads to the sin of murder. When we feed the evil desire of greed it leads to living beyond our means (debt), jealousy and discontent.
God was given us the weapon of righteousness to combat temptation. The way we overcome temptation is by choosing to live a morally right, virtuous and law-abiding life. Righteousness is like a breastplate that guards our most vital organ—the heart.
Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place. Ephesians 6:14
1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.”
Once we are able to see life through the lens of truth, we disable one of Satan’s chief methods of attack. When Satan is no longer able to deceive us, he turns to his weapon of temptation. If deception doesn’t work, Satan does not give up. He goes to plan-B, temptation.
One of Satan’s favorite methods of attack is temptation. But God has promised that we can have victory over temptation.
James 1:13-15 says, “13When tempted, no one should say, "God is tempting me." For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; 14but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. 15Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.”
According to this passage of scripture, we have two enemies we must overcome. The first is Satan, and the second is our sinful nature. Temptation appeals to our evil desires as it tries to persuade us into wrongdoing by offering us some kind of pleasure or reward. Then, as we continue to imagine or think about the immediate pleasure or reward of our evil action, sin is conceived in our soul. Once sin is conceived, just like a baby in a mother’s womb, it will eventually grow to full term and have to be birthed. Then, after our evil desires are birthed or acted upon, they grow up and become the regular part of our behavior. Eventually, falling into temptation will lead us to death.
Anytime we fall into temptation, our hearts become hardened and our consciences become seared. With hard hearts and seared consciences, we are able to sin without any regret or remorse. The more we sin, the more we allow Satan to work his destructive agenda through our lives. For example, when we feed the evil desire of lust it leads to such sins as adultery, pedophilia and homosexuality. When we feed the evil desire of anger it leads to the sin of murder. When we feed the evil desire of greed it leads to living beyond our means (debt), jealousy and discontent.
God was given us the weapon of righteousness to combat temptation. The way we overcome temptation is by choosing to live a morally right, virtuous and law-abiding life. Righteousness is like a breastplate that guards our most vital organ—the heart.
Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place. Ephesians 6:14
Monday, July 14, 2008
Who is our Real Enemy?
Have you ever felt at times in your life there is some invisible force working against you? Well, there is and his name is Satan.
Our real enemy is not God or people, it is Satan.
1 Peter 5:8, 9 says, “Be self controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings.”
James 4:7 says, “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”
The devil, or Satan, is a spiritual being totally committed to keeping us from living for the glory and pleasure of God. His goal is to divert glory from God to himself or to others. The devil, our enemy, has three main weapons he uses against God’s people.
The first weapon Satan uses is deception.
In 2 Corinthians 11:3 Apostle Paul writes, “But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent’s cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ.”
The key to winning any battle is to identify the enemy. Satan has three advantages over humans in the war for souls. First, he is invisible. Second, he is a master of disguise. And third, many people don’t even believe he exits.
Do you remember the hit movie, Predator? The Predator was able to easily claim his human trophies because the people did not even know he was preying upon them. Once, they realized that there was an enemy in the jungle; it was difficult to wage warfare against the Predator because he was able to make himself invisible by blending in with the environment.
One of the greatest deception traps that people fall into is the belief that Satan is not real. This gives him an incredible advantage to work his demonic schemes in the lives of people. Like the alien in the movie Predator, Satan is able to reap havoc on humanity without people even realizing they are under attack. He also disguises his schemes through a world system that is driven by selfish ambition. Many people live on the treadmill of life pursuing the “things of the world” that never satisfy. Also, many people believe the deceptive philosophies and false religions that Satan purports.
God has given us the weapon of truth to defeat the deceptive schemes of the enemy. The belt of truth holds all other weapons as we engage Satan in battle. Jesus said, “The truth will set us free.” Only truth can deliver us from the bondage of an incorrect belief system. The way to keep free from deception is to stay in God’s word and stay in fellowship with God’s people.
Do you believe in absolute truth and do you believe the devil is real? Let me know what you think.
Our real enemy is not God or people, it is Satan.
1 Peter 5:8, 9 says, “Be self controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings.”
James 4:7 says, “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”
The devil, or Satan, is a spiritual being totally committed to keeping us from living for the glory and pleasure of God. His goal is to divert glory from God to himself or to others. The devil, our enemy, has three main weapons he uses against God’s people.
The first weapon Satan uses is deception.
In 2 Corinthians 11:3 Apostle Paul writes, “But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent’s cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ.”
The key to winning any battle is to identify the enemy. Satan has three advantages over humans in the war for souls. First, he is invisible. Second, he is a master of disguise. And third, many people don’t even believe he exits.
Do you remember the hit movie, Predator? The Predator was able to easily claim his human trophies because the people did not even know he was preying upon them. Once, they realized that there was an enemy in the jungle; it was difficult to wage warfare against the Predator because he was able to make himself invisible by blending in with the environment.
One of the greatest deception traps that people fall into is the belief that Satan is not real. This gives him an incredible advantage to work his demonic schemes in the lives of people. Like the alien in the movie Predator, Satan is able to reap havoc on humanity without people even realizing they are under attack. He also disguises his schemes through a world system that is driven by selfish ambition. Many people live on the treadmill of life pursuing the “things of the world” that never satisfy. Also, many people believe the deceptive philosophies and false religions that Satan purports.
God has given us the weapon of truth to defeat the deceptive schemes of the enemy. The belt of truth holds all other weapons as we engage Satan in battle. Jesus said, “The truth will set us free.” Only truth can deliver us from the bondage of an incorrect belief system. The way to keep free from deception is to stay in God’s word and stay in fellowship with God’s people.
Do you believe in absolute truth and do you believe the devil is real? Let me know what you think.
Sunday, July 06, 2008
Get Cut (Part 3)
The third characteristic of “getting cut” is delight.
Psalm 1:1-3 says, “1 Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. 2 But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night. 3 He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.”
Job is an example of a man who prospered because he delighted in God’s word. Job 23:12 says, “12 I have not departed from the commands of his lips; I have treasured the words of his mouth more than my daily bread.” During a conversation with Satan, God had such confidence in Job to do the right thing that he referred him to the evil one. Job 1:8 says, “8 Then the LORD said to Satan, "Have you considered my servant Job? There is no one on earth like him; he is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil." Through hardships and trials it was the foundation of God’s word in Job’s life that sustained him.
Jeremiah was used by God to proclaim judgment upon Judah and Jerusalem, and yet he was also a prophet of hope, proclaiming oracles of salvation. Why did God use Jeremiah to be His mouthpiece? Jeremiah 15:16 gives us the answer to this question. It says, “16 When your words came, I ate them; they were my joy and my heart's delight, for I bear your name, O LORD God Almighty.” Jeremiah was a man who delighted in God’s word.
Joshua was a man used by God to do mighty exploits, and lead the Israelites on the quest to possess the promise land. Before stepping foot on his new territory, God gave Joshua the key to his future success. And guess what; it was rooted in obedience to God’s word. Joshua 1:6-8 says, “6 "Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their forefathers to give them. 7 Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. 8 Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.”
Jesus resisted temptation and drove his enemy away from Him by quoting scripture as He responded to the devil’s enticements. Three times Jesus reminded the devil about God’s will by saying, “it is written”. Jesus not only recited Scripture, but He lived it also (Matthew 4:1-11).
All of these men did amazing things in their generation because they delighted in God’s word. What do you do when you wake up and realize that you hunger and thirst for God? You become a person of significance and a world changer!
God‘s word is as important to the nourishment of your soul and spirit as food is to your physical body.
Psalm 1:1-3 says, “1 Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. 2 But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night. 3 He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.”
Job is an example of a man who prospered because he delighted in God’s word. Job 23:12 says, “12 I have not departed from the commands of his lips; I have treasured the words of his mouth more than my daily bread.” During a conversation with Satan, God had such confidence in Job to do the right thing that he referred him to the evil one. Job 1:8 says, “8 Then the LORD said to Satan, "Have you considered my servant Job? There is no one on earth like him; he is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil." Through hardships and trials it was the foundation of God’s word in Job’s life that sustained him.
Jeremiah was used by God to proclaim judgment upon Judah and Jerusalem, and yet he was also a prophet of hope, proclaiming oracles of salvation. Why did God use Jeremiah to be His mouthpiece? Jeremiah 15:16 gives us the answer to this question. It says, “16 When your words came, I ate them; they were my joy and my heart's delight, for I bear your name, O LORD God Almighty.” Jeremiah was a man who delighted in God’s word.
Joshua was a man used by God to do mighty exploits, and lead the Israelites on the quest to possess the promise land. Before stepping foot on his new territory, God gave Joshua the key to his future success. And guess what; it was rooted in obedience to God’s word. Joshua 1:6-8 says, “6 "Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their forefathers to give them. 7 Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. 8 Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.”
Jesus resisted temptation and drove his enemy away from Him by quoting scripture as He responded to the devil’s enticements. Three times Jesus reminded the devil about God’s will by saying, “it is written”. Jesus not only recited Scripture, but He lived it also (Matthew 4:1-11).
All of these men did amazing things in their generation because they delighted in God’s word. What do you do when you wake up and realize that you hunger and thirst for God? You become a person of significance and a world changer!
God‘s word is as important to the nourishment of your soul and spirit as food is to your physical body.
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Get Cut (Part 2)
The second characteristic is discipline in God’s Word.
Acts 17:11 says, “11Now the Bereans were of more noble character than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.”
Luke makes it a point to draw attention to two magnificent qualities of the Bereans. First, they had a desire, or eagerness, for God word. Second, they had a discipline that led them to examine the Scriptures everyday. They did not just rely on the preaching of Paul. They learned how to read and study the word on their own. The Bereans were not satisfied to live on Apostle Paul’s faith; instead, they demonstrated nobility of character and maturity by feeding themselves on God’s word.
It is impossible to maintain greatness in any activity without discipline. The Berean’s eagerness (desire) led to their discipline of examination. Tiger’s love for golf results in countless hours of practice. Even after playing great rounds of golf, he has been known to stay on the driving range until dark perfecting his swing.
In his first and second book to Timothy, Apostle Paul exhorted his spiritual son to be a man of discipline and conscientious study. 1 Timothy 4:7 says, “Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives’ tales; rather, train yourself to be godly." In a world where there are many philosophies competing against the will of God, just like in the days of Timothy, it is imperative that we are trained and equipped with a Biblical worldview.
2 Timothy 2:15 says, “15Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” He also reminded Timothy about the importance and purpose of Scripture. 2 Timothy 2:16-17 says, “16All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”
One day while working out, I began to think about all the hours I have trained trying to attain those illusive six-pack of abs. Instantly, I became convicted about the fact that I had spent more time conditioning my body than strengthening my soul and spirit. Also, the reality that my physical body is “wasting away” daily made my out of balance regimen even more troubling. It was in this moment that I added spiritual disciplines to my daily workout routine.
While riding the bike, I read my Bible for twenty minutes. After riding the bike, I do the elliptical machine for seven minutes. This is enough time to read a Psalm, a Proverb, 2-4 chapters in the Old Testament, one chapter in the New Testament, and memorize one verse of Scripture. Then, I finish my cardio workout by running 5-10 minutes on the indoor track. While running, I pray the Lord’s prayer, meditate on what I just read in the Bible, and recite my memory verse in my head. In 2006, this discipline allowed me to read the Bible in a year, and memorize 1 John, 2 Timothy, James, 1 Peter, Philippians and Ephesians. Before this, I used to doubt I could memorize one scripture a week. This year I have already read the Bible through Deuteronomy and I have memorized 3 John, Luke 17:1-10, Hebrews 11, Matthew 7:24-27 and Romans 8.
I am convinced that the key to my consistency in my walk with the Lord is my diligence to read, study, memorize and meditate on God’s word. I am being regenerated inwardly day by day as God’s word transforms me and renews my mind. After seventeen years of being a Christian, I have not “lost that loving feeling.” I have often hoped that I would run into that lady during my travels and let her observe me still reading God’s word and still excited to gain wisdom and revelation about my Lord.
My workout routine is how I tell my body who is the boss. What do you do when you wake up and realize that you don’t hunger and thirst for God? You tell your body who is the boss! God‘s word is as important to the nourishment of your soul and spirit as food is to your physical body.
Stay tuned for part 3.
Acts 17:11 says, “11Now the Bereans were of more noble character than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.”
Luke makes it a point to draw attention to two magnificent qualities of the Bereans. First, they had a desire, or eagerness, for God word. Second, they had a discipline that led them to examine the Scriptures everyday. They did not just rely on the preaching of Paul. They learned how to read and study the word on their own. The Bereans were not satisfied to live on Apostle Paul’s faith; instead, they demonstrated nobility of character and maturity by feeding themselves on God’s word.
It is impossible to maintain greatness in any activity without discipline. The Berean’s eagerness (desire) led to their discipline of examination. Tiger’s love for golf results in countless hours of practice. Even after playing great rounds of golf, he has been known to stay on the driving range until dark perfecting his swing.
In his first and second book to Timothy, Apostle Paul exhorted his spiritual son to be a man of discipline and conscientious study. 1 Timothy 4:7 says, “Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives’ tales; rather, train yourself to be godly." In a world where there are many philosophies competing against the will of God, just like in the days of Timothy, it is imperative that we are trained and equipped with a Biblical worldview.
2 Timothy 2:15 says, “15Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” He also reminded Timothy about the importance and purpose of Scripture. 2 Timothy 2:16-17 says, “16All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”
One day while working out, I began to think about all the hours I have trained trying to attain those illusive six-pack of abs. Instantly, I became convicted about the fact that I had spent more time conditioning my body than strengthening my soul and spirit. Also, the reality that my physical body is “wasting away” daily made my out of balance regimen even more troubling. It was in this moment that I added spiritual disciplines to my daily workout routine.
While riding the bike, I read my Bible for twenty minutes. After riding the bike, I do the elliptical machine for seven minutes. This is enough time to read a Psalm, a Proverb, 2-4 chapters in the Old Testament, one chapter in the New Testament, and memorize one verse of Scripture. Then, I finish my cardio workout by running 5-10 minutes on the indoor track. While running, I pray the Lord’s prayer, meditate on what I just read in the Bible, and recite my memory verse in my head. In 2006, this discipline allowed me to read the Bible in a year, and memorize 1 John, 2 Timothy, James, 1 Peter, Philippians and Ephesians. Before this, I used to doubt I could memorize one scripture a week. This year I have already read the Bible through Deuteronomy and I have memorized 3 John, Luke 17:1-10, Hebrews 11, Matthew 7:24-27 and Romans 8.
I am convinced that the key to my consistency in my walk with the Lord is my diligence to read, study, memorize and meditate on God’s word. I am being regenerated inwardly day by day as God’s word transforms me and renews my mind. After seventeen years of being a Christian, I have not “lost that loving feeling.” I have often hoped that I would run into that lady during my travels and let her observe me still reading God’s word and still excited to gain wisdom and revelation about my Lord.
My workout routine is how I tell my body who is the boss. What do you do when you wake up and realize that you don’t hunger and thirst for God? You tell your body who is the boss! God‘s word is as important to the nourishment of your soul and spirit as food is to your physical body.
Stay tuned for part 3.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Get Cut
The title of this blog is terminology we use in the gym to describe the body of a person who has worked hard to "get cut" or physically fit. In the next three blogs, I am going to write about three essential characteristics every person should possess if they want to "get cut" on God's word and develop a strong life of faith. Hebrews 4:12 says, "For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart."
The first characteristic is a desire for God’s word.
It is impossible to be great at anything without desire. Elite athletes, skillful doctors, successful business men and women, great preachers, excellent parents and brilliant professors all contain a passion for their profession.
Therefore, any great man or woman of God throughout history has had a desire to please God and obey His word. David was a young man who represented this fact. He was known as a person after God’s own heart; someone who would do everything the Lord wanted him to do (Acts 13:22).
In Psalm 40: 6-8 David writes, “Sacrifice and offering you did not desire, but my ears you have pierced, burnt offerings and sin offerings you did not require. 7 Then I said, "Here I am, I have come— it is written about me in the scroll. 8 I desire to do your will, O my God; your law is within my heart."
David was able to change his world because he desired God’s will. In other words, God was with him. He administered justice, conquered kingdoms and gained what was promised because he had wisdom and revelation about the purpose of the Lord in his lifetime.
Acts 13:36 says, “For when David had served God’s purpose in his own generation, he fell asleep; he was buried with his fathers and his body decayed.”His desire manifested in a diligence to make sure God’s law was in his heart.
When I first became a Christian during my junior year of college while playing basketball at FSU, I used to take my Bible with me and read it while we traveled to our contests during the week. Many hours were spent on buses and planes reading through the Holy Scriptures.
One time while in the Atlanta airport reading my Bible during a layover, a lady sat next to me and commented about my attentiveness to God’s word. Encouraged to see a young man reading the Bible, she questioned me about my faith and shared her salvation experience with me. I told her that I had recently received Jesus as my Lord and Savior, and explained to her my desire to make up for lost time by learning everything about God and His will. All of a sudden her enthusiasm turned to skepticism as she said, “Enjoy it while it lasts.”
Two things were obvious from talking to this lady. First, she once had a legitimate experience and love for the Lord. Second, she had “lost that loving feeling”. Reflecting back on our conversation, it is now apparent that she was an empty person because she had lost her desire for God and His Word.
What do you do when you wake up and realize that you don’t hunger and thirst for God?
Stay tuned for my next blog and remember: God‘s word is as important to the nourishment of your soul and spirit as food is to your physical body.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Divine Nutrition
Jesus said, "It is written: 'Man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Matthew 4:4When I was working at FSU, my workout partner and good buddy went through a very traumatic time in his life. His girlfriend, who he had been dating since high school, suddenly broke up with him for another man without even a warning. My buddy was convinced he was going to marry this girl. He thought he had found a love that lasts a lifetime.
As you can imagine, this breakup saddened my friend deeply. In fact, he suffered a prolonged period of intense depression. During this time of depression, he had no appetite for food and no desire to workout. Once a paragon of physical fitness, he quickly became skinny and weak as he lost more than twenty pounds.
Although he was physically alive, he was emotionally dead. He became so distraught that he couldn’t even keep pace with me on our runs. I couldn’t believe that one of the top tri-athletes in Florida, and a man who could run a mile in under five minutes, was struggling to keep up with me during our runs at a slow seven minute mile pace.
His despair and anguish of soul caused him to lose his natural desire to hunger and thirst. I remember forcing him to eat PowerBars that I had in storage for the athletes that I trained. He was still alive, but it seemed like he was really dead. He was not the same person I had become so close to in many of our excessive training sessions.
In my fourteen years of being involved in ministry, I have observed that many Christians are like my friend after his breakup with his girlfriend. They are alive physically, but they are dead spiritually. They have lost their desire to pray, worship and feed on God’s word. Many of them crawl into church with their “spiritual gas tanks” empty, and wait for the preacher to shove the Word down their throat. Because of their spiritual malnutrition, these anemic Christians actually despise the very thing they need most.
What do you do when you wake up and realize that you don’t hunger and thirst for God?
My youngest son Noah is full of life and energy. He wakes up singing and he hits the ground running. It is a great thrill to be the first to get him out of his crib in the morning. Without exception, the first thing Noah does in the morning when his feet touch ground is dash for the kitchen. As soon as he arrives in the kitchen, he grabs his little bib and puts it around his neck. Then, he grabs his little eating chair and table and drags it towards the refrigerator while pointing to his favorite breakfast foods and reminding us to not forget the juice.
We are amazed at how much our little guy eats. His appetite is an indicator of the fact that he is full of life and energy. With a full belly, he is ready to conquer the day by putting his fingers on anything within his reach.
I am sure the majority of us start our day by eating or drinking. I am pretty confident that most people schedule their day around what they are going to eat. In other words, eating is not a random event for most people. It is a well planned and well thought out incident in our lives.
We all know that eating food is essential for maintaining health and sustaining life. America is so committed to eating that many of its citizens struggle with obesity. Unless we are fasting, unhealthy or dead, humans don’t go a single day without eating.
My goal in the next series of blogs is to make sure you understand God‘s word is as important to the nourishment of your soul and spirit as food is to your physical body.
Sunday, June 08, 2008
Guard Your Heart (Part 2)
The key to guarding your heart is understanding that you are a child of God.1 John 3:1-3 says, “1How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. 2Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when he appears,[a]we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. 3Everyone who has this hope in him purifies himself, just as he is pure."
Understanding who we are in Christ is essential if we are going to live the way he wants us to live on planet earth. Jesus has set a pretty high standard for His followers and that standard in none other than Himself. In fact, the evidence that we are in Him is the fact that we live like Him. 1 John 2:5b-6 says, “This is how we know we are in Him: (6) Whoever claims to live in Him must walk as Jesus did.
Proper thinking always precedes and leads to proper conduct. As a young man aspiring to earn a basketball scholarship at FSU, I was constantly told by people that I could not fulfill my dream. For example, when I quit playing football in high school to focus solely on honing my basketball skills, our athletic director and head football coach told me, “You will never amount to anything in basketball.”
Trying to become a great basketball player in a football city was quite difficult. Tallahassee is not exactly a hotbed for college basketball recruiting. Basketball players in this city are at a disadvantage when it comes to getting the exposure needed for signing a scholarship.
Do to the lack of competition, exposure and people who believed in me, I found myself questioning my ability to play big time college basketball. Because of this, I signed early before my senior year with a small Division 1 School named Mercer which is located in Macon, Georgia. After a successful freshman year, I decided to transfer to FSU without a guarantee of a scholarship. During the summer before my sophomore year, one of FSU players decided to transfer to James Madison. I had been playing pick-up games all summer with the FSU team and doing very well. Coach Kennedy watched one of these games when I made six three pointer in a row. So, to make a long story short, I was offered a scholarship to play basketball at FSU right before the fall semester of 1988.
Even though I had been playing well in pick up games, I still was not sure if I could play college basketball at the highest level. My first game as a Seminole was our Midnight Madness scrimmage game. I remember sitting in the locker room after midnight (my time of night) with butterflies in my stomach and chill bumps on my skin as I listened to Coach Kennedy’s pre-game speech with the crowd cheering in the background. We were a preseason top twenty team and had one of the best guards, George McCloud, in the country running the point for us.
Before I ran out on the court, I went to the mirror and stared at the uniform I was wearing. I reflected on how I had dreamed about this moment all of my life and my journey to become a team member for the Seminoles. As I continued to stare at my uniform, all of a sudden a peace entered my heart and a sense of confidence began to resonate in my mind. The Seminole uniform was a sign to me that I belonged on the team. I went out and scored sixteen points scrimmaging against a team that would remain in the top ten throughout the year.
Romans 8:15-17 says, "15For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship.[a] And by him we cry, "Abba,[b] Father." 16The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children.17Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory."
The revelation that we are children of the King and therefore, heirs of God and co-heirs of Christ is the key to correct behavior. Knowing that we covered in the blood of Jesus and our new uniform is the robe of righteousness ensures us that we belong. Living as the children of God, we can now perform at the highest level as we overcome evil with good.
Monday, June 02, 2008
Guard Your Heart
In April of this year I had the privilege of playing in the Blount/Bowden Charity Golf Tournament in Destin, Florida. The tournament always concludes with a fund-raising dinner in the evening. Coach Bowden, as you would expect, was the keynote speaker. The event raises funds to send students to FSU on scholarships. Coach Bowden concluded his speech with words of wisdom for the scholarship recipients. He told the students that one of the most valuable lessons he had learned in life was the importance of guarding your heart. Then he quoted Proverbs 4:23 from the Bible. It says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” In all of his victories, defeats, successes and failures, Coach Bowden has had to work diligently in order to guard his heart.I listened intently as Coach Bowden spoke and reflected on my application of this timeless truth. Since I became a Christian, I have experienced many relational disappointments in life.
I remember going through a difficult time of transition over seven years ago as Cindy and I took over senior pastor responsibilities of ENT. During this time our closest friends, and key leaders of the church, all moved to Atlanta. Also, other friends and fellow church members, decided to start another church in Tallahassee because they didn’t want to follow our leadership. Then, to add insult to injury, one of my closest friend’s told me as we sat in my driveway in his car after a late night Champions for Christ meeting, that he would be leaving the church to join the dissenters.
A few years back, I received the news that the man who married Cindy and I, and had a huge impact on our spiritual development, was in an adulterous affair with his secretary. The gentleman, who had inspired me to live holy and pure for God, had fallen from grace.
Every year, Cindy and I have people who we love leave our church for one reason or another. Every time this happens, there is an emotional tearing in our hearts because we care deeply about every person who has made a commitment to be a member of Every Nation Tallahassee.
The older you get, the more challenging it becomes to guard your heart. The more you deal with people, the more challenging it becomes to love them unconditionally. The more you lead others, the more opportunity you have to disappoint them by not meeting all their expectations.
One of the hardest things to deal with in life is the discouragement that comes at the hands of people. I have always said that ministry would be a cakewalk if my church was located on a deserted island. I am confident that you can identify with what I am writing about in regard to our relationships with people. We all have been let down and disappointed by people.
The issue is not will we have disappointments in life; the issue is how we deal with these letdowns that ultimately come. It’s been said, “The trouble with life is that it’s so daily.”
A good friend asked me the other day the question, "How are you doing?" I told him that I was doing better than ever. Please allow me to explain why I gave him this answer.
Eight is the biblical number for new beginnings. I told my congregation in January that 2008 was going to be a year of new beginnings for all who would open their hearts to what God wanted to do in them. I am excited to write that after all my hurts, letdowns and disappointments in life, I am still willing to open my heart to people and try my best to love them. As I have learned to guard my heart over the years, God is rewarding me by filling it with a greater increase of Christ and his love.
How do I know? I know because I am still willing to love.
Apostle Paul's prayer for the church of Ephesus in Ephesians 4:16-19 says, “16I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, 18may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God."
Guarding our heart is the only way we can live in the love of Christ, and as a result, care about what He cares about. God, more than anything else, cares about people.
Yes—even the ones who bug you, hurt you, disappoint you and let you down.
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Leaving a Godly Legacy (Part 3)
The third key to leaving a Godly legacy is the father’s identity.
15For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship.[g] And by him we cry, "Abba,[h] Father." 16The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children. Romans 8:15-16
In the fullness of time, God sent His Son Jesus Christ to earth to reveal to us what He ultimately wanted the world to know about Himself. The greatest revelation of God is not one of a judge. The greatest revelation of God is not one of a lawgiver. The greatest revelation of God is not one of a King.
Yes it is true; God is every single one of these depictions. However, in these last days he has spoken to us by His Son, whom he appointed heir of all things, and through whom he made the universe. The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word.(Hebrews 1:2-3).
God’s greatest revelation of Himself was disclosed to us through His Son. Jesus Christ, the Son of God, is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of His being, and the essence of God’s nature is that of a Father. In John 17:4, 6a Jesus says, “I have brought you glory on earth by completing the work you gave me to do. (6) I have revealed you to those whom you gave me out of the world.”
Jesus revealed to us the fact that God is our Eternal Father.
1 John 3:1-3 says, “1How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. 2Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when he appears,[a]we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. 3Everyone who has this hope in him purifies himself, just as he is pure.”
J. I. Packer in Knowing God said, "You sum up the whole of New Testament teaching in a single phrase, if you speak of it as a revelation of the Fatherhood of the holy Creator. In the same way, you sum up the whole of New Testament religion if you describe it as the knowledge of God as one's holy Father.
"If you want to judge how well a person understands Christianity, find out how much he makes of the thought of being God's child, and having God as his Father. If this is not the thought that prompts and controls his worship and prayers and his whole outlook on life, it means that he does not understand Christianity very well at all."
Deep in the heart of every child is the desire to please their father. Without a father’s affection and affirmation, a child will not be secure. Children find purpose and significance when they live to please God the Father. Dr. Ross Campbell, associate professor of Pediatrics and Psychiatry at the University of Tennesee College of Medicine, said, “In all my reading and experience, I have never known of one sexually-disoriented person who had a warm, loving and affectionate father."
Jamie Foxx, the actor portraying Ray Charles in the movie Ray, never had the relationship with his father that he wanted. His biological parents lived 28 miles away in Dallas, Texas, but rarely visited or noted his achievements.
“I passed for more than 1,000 yards, the first quarterback at my high school to do that,” says Foxx. “I was making the Dallas Morning News, and my father never came down. That’s weird. Even to this day—nothing…but that absence made me angry. It made me want to be something. I said, I’m going to make you look up one day and say, ‘That’s my son’.”
A child is not likely to find a father in God unless he finds something of God in his father. When a father spends time with their children, and when a father disciplines their children, the end result should be kids that live like Jesus as children of God.
If a child is neglected by the father, they will inevitably bear the image of the one who had the most influence on their life. When the role of the father breaks down the norms of that society break down because people lack the security that is found in a Godly identity.
The TV show "60 Minutes" ran a segment that tells us something important about fatherlessness.
The park rangers at a South African wildlife preserve were concerned about the slaughter of 39 rare white rhinos in their park. It turned out that the rhinos were killed not by poachers but rather by juvenile delinquents—teen elephants.
The story began a decade ago when the park could no longer sustain the increasing population of elephants. They decided to kill many of the adult elephants whose young were old enough to survive without them. And so, the young elephants grew up fatherless.
As time went on, many of these young elephants roamed together in gangs and began to do things elephants normally don't do. They threw sticks and water at rhinos and acted like neighborhood bullies. Without dominant males, the young bulls became sexually active, producing excessive testosterone and exhibiting aggressive behavior. A few young males grew especially violent, knocking down rhinos and stepping or kneeling on them, crushing the life out of them. Mafuto the gang leader eventually had to be killed.
The park rangers theorized that these young teen-aged elephants were acting badly because they lacked role models. The solution was to bring in a large male to lead them and to counteract their bully behaviors. Soon the new male established dominance and put the young bulls in their places. The killing stopped. The young males were mentored—and saved.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Leaving a Godly Legacy (Part 2)
The second key to leaving a Godly legacy is the father’s discipline.
He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him. Proverbs 13:24
Too many parents are not on spanking terms with their children. Leaving a legacy requires applying discipline. Without it, a father’s instruction is mere advice. Kids need to learn very early that wrong decisions lead to painful consequences. Every sin has a price. Pain administered through discipline is a persuasive teacher that delivers the truth home to a child’s heart. Every child needs discipline. Without it, their lives are lived without the self-control required to function effectively in whatever God calls them to do.
Too many parents seem more like their children’s housemates and friends than experienced adults guiding and shaping the young. Either unable or unwilling to take charge of their children, they are parents who are committed above all to remaining popular with their own children. They are able to ignore the most difficult parts of parenting—setting an example, and assuming responsibility for supervising and disciplining their children—and enjoy all the fun of relating to them as friends.
But when parents squander their moral authority, it’s the children who ultimately suffer, because they are deprived of the wisdom, experience, and guidance of a mature adult. In fact, today’s young people are far more open to parental supervision and guidance than their parents often suspect. Dr. Drew Pinsky says, “Kids now see their parents as something to help them. They feel this generation is there to help them enter adulthood successfully. They are looking for them to do these things they’re not doing.”
What is the purpose of discipline? Why are we to discipline our children? How are we to discipline our children?
Every father must master the art of discipline. The Bible clearly calls for fathers to carry out biblical discipline, and to fail to do so is to fall short of what God requires of us. But if we will apply loving discipline as the Scriptures teach, our children will grow up to be what God desires.
Ephesians 6:4 says, “And fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”
There are five key observations about discipline from this verse.
First, fathers are to be the primary disciplinarians. This is because dads are the spiritual leaders at home. When we are at work or away from home, the responsibility of discipline is delegated to our wives. But discipline, nevertheless, remains our ultimate responsibility as fathers. The buck always stops with us.
Second, fathers are to carry out discipline on God’s behalf. We stand in His place to bring about the discipline that He requires. Thus, every earthly father is an extension of our heavenly Father in the matter of discipline.
Third, fathers must be under control when they exercise discipline. As men, we can have a tendency to be too demanding, too impatient with our children. So, God calls for self-restraint when we discipline our children. We must have discipline when we administer discipline.
A clear distinction needs to be made between biblical discipline and child abuse. Chuck Swindoll provides us with some helpful contrasts.
Abuse
Unfair and unexpected
Degrading and demoralizing
Extreme—too harsh, brutal
Tortuous—leaves scars
Results from hatred and resentment
Produces resentment of authority
Destroys self-esteem
Inability to determine right from wrong
Discipline
Fair and expected
Upholds dignity
Balanced—within limits
Painful—but leaves no scars
Prompted by love and concern
Produces respect of authority
Strengthens self esteem
Produces self-government
Fourth, fathers must surround discipline with instruction. Discipline and instruction must always go hand in hand. Instruction should both precede discipline as well as follow it. First, we should teach what is expected before discipline is ever applied. And we should teach after discipline is applied so that the wrong will not be repeated.
Fifth, fathers should consider discipline to be very important. Discipline is the systematic training of sons and daughters to bring them to maturity. Apostle Paul could have included any number of things in this verse about how to raise our children, but instead he emphasized discipline.Without discipline, our children will remain spiritually immature, socially unbalanced, and emotionally insecure. It is an absolutely essential part of their child development.
Tupac Shakur was an extremely popular, award-winning gansta rap artist. Brought up in a New York City ghetto, he personified the violent lifestyle depicted in his music.
Shakur spent eight months in prison for rape. He also survived a mugging, during which he was shot five times. Then, in the fall of 1996, Tupac was gunned down in a drive-by shooting. Six days later, on September 13th, he died.
Tupac: Resurrection is a documentary of Shakur's brief and tragic life. It is told through a collection of audio recordings and interviews given before his death, as well through his music, poetry, photographs, and home movies.
Tupac narrates the experiences of his early childhood. As he speaks, family pictures appear on-screen along with the words, "I blame my father, cuz he left me."
Tupac says, "My real father was a Black Panther. But when I was growing up, I never knew who my real father was, for sure. My stepfather was a gangster, a straight-up street hustler. My mom got a kid, but he didn't even care, 'Oh that's my son.' He took care of me, gave me money. But he was a criminal too—out there doing his own thing. And he came and brought me money and left. I know for a fact if I had a father, I'd have some discipline. I'd have more confidence. Your mother can't calm you down the way a man can. Your mother can't reassure you the way a man can. Your mother can't show you where your manhood was. You need a man to teach you how to be a man."
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